How to get along with sour mother-in-law

Below, I will first introduce the personality characteristics of these eight typical mother-in-law: 0? 2? 0? The first kind of mother-in-law is a good wife and mother. This type of mother-in-law is very common in life. Generally, they don't have high academic qualifications and social status, and their focus is on their husbands and children. They usually cook well and sew well, and they are busy every day, as if they have endless housework, and their lives are ordinary, trivial and full. ? 0? 2? 0? The second kind of mother-in-law is smart and capable. This type of mother-in-law is generally well educated and has a good job. She is in good order, both in her career and in her family. She is the kind of woman who walks out of the hall into the kitchen. They are generally tasteful and often critical of their daughters-in-law. ? 0? 2? 0? The third kind of mother-in-law is careless. This type of mother-in-law is generally cheerful and doesn't care about trifles. They don't pay much attention to the daily necessities of life, and they don't like to worry about being implicated. They like to live as they please. ? 0? 2? 0? The fourth kind of mother-in-law is sensitive and suspicious. This type of mother-in-law is cautious and narrow-minded. A word that others don't pay attention to may arouse her suspicion and make her unable to eat for a long time. ? 0? 2? 0? The fifth kind of mother-in-law is gentle. This kind of mother-in-law is generally engaged in civil affairs such as education and health, and has a wide range of knowledge. They are generally polite in dealing with people and speaking politely. ? 0? 2? 0? The sixth mother-in-law modern fashion. This type of mother-in-law is generally more open-minded, dressed more fashionably than young people, and often has a different lifestyle. In real life, there are indeed many middle-aged women wearing Hari Hahan costumes and bright makeup of young people, driving sports cars in the city. Looking back, you can never tell their age. ? 0? 2? 0? The seventh kind of mother-in-law is thunderbolt type. This type of mother-in-law is generally eager to do things, impatient, grumpy, outspoken, heartless, can not stand the slow heat of others, and the relationship with neighbors is either particularly enthusiastic or particularly tense. In short, everything is black and white, completely different. ? 0? 2? 0? The eighth kind of mother-in-law is a temperature eater. This type of mother-in-law and mother-in-law are two typical examples. They are generally introverted, don't like to talk more, don't care too much, hang high, don't worry about everything, and don't like to disturb their own pace of life. The difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times. The love tragedy of Peacock Flying Southeast has survived to this day because it met an extremely critical evil mother-in-law. The modern kannika nimtragol is different from the past kannika nimtragol. Generally speaking, they have independent economic ability, can control their spare time relatively freely, and have a certain position in the family. They don't have to look at their mother-in-law's face at home every day like kannika nimtragol in the past. What they think day and night is that their daughter-in-law who has been married for thousands of years can stand up straight one day, let kannika nimtragol look at her face and continue to exercise her mother-in-law authority. ? 0? 2? 0? On the other hand, the status of kannika nimtragol will also improve, after all, it is the younger generation. We should respect our mother-in-law Only by properly handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can we create a harmonious family atmosphere and the relationship between husband and wife be unbreakable. ? 0? 2? 0? I once saw a girl around me, who had no father since she was a child, and met a handsome husband with good family conditions and was very accommodating to her. Probably because she didn't have a father's love since she was a child, and her husband listened to her. My parents-in-law are also sensible people, and they love her very much, which makes her form an illusion that it is natural for her husband and mother-in-law to love her. Everyone should take her as the center, and they are a little dissatisfied. For example, if her husband doesn't accompany her to play online games for a while, he will burst into tears and have to complain to her mother-in-law. On the first Spring Festival of her first year, she hurried back to her parents' home on New Year's Day, and her husband accompanied her back to her parents' home early in the morning. In the afternoon, her husband was asked out by a friend. She felt that her husband was not around, so she ran to her husband's house in one breath and burst into tears as soon as she entered the door. Regardless of the room full of people on New Year's Day, people who didn't know thought something important had happened. On August 15, she cried and hid in the house because her husband was out for social intercourse, refused to have a reunion dinner together, and finally coaxed her to the dinner table, even complaining about her husband's injustice. Over time, her mother-in-law felt that she was not sensible and dissatisfied with her. The following year's Spring Festival, on the first day of New Year's Day, she was embarrassed again, and her mother-in-law was angry: "There are no dead people in our family. What are you crying about on New Year's Day? Go home and cry! " Since then, the mother-in-law has completely fallen out of favor and clearly told her son not to take him home if he can't manage his wife well. Her husband, who has always been obedient to her, also thinks that she is unruly and willful and has lost patience with her. The two began to quarrel frequently, and finally, they fought with her. The girl was snubbed by her mother-in-law, and she deserved it. If she hadn't been so self-centered, she would have thought about it from the perspective of her mother-in-law. During the Chinese New Year and the holidays, did the elders all want to be family, happy and safe, and what it would be like to cry over and over about their own flesh and blood in front of her, so that she might not make such stupid mistakes repeatedly and lose her mother-in-law's favor. ? 0? 2? 0? How to get along with your mother-in-law? After all, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not mother and daughter, and there is no blood relationship as a link. Their relationship between husband and wife is different. Husband and wife only come together with emotional foundation, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are passive or unconscious combinations. To handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we must first know ourselves and know ourselves. Only according to the personality characteristics of different types of mother-in-law, do what you like and prescribe the right medicine, can you see the move, and you will not be rejected by your mother-in-law and cause trouble to your family. ? 0? 2? 0? According to their personality characteristics, I divide mother-in-law into eight typical types: wife-in-law, smart, careless, sensitive and suspicious, gentle and sincere, modern and fashionable, and thunder-swallowing, and analyze with you how modern kannika nimtragol should treat mother-in-law. With a good wife and mother, kannika nimtragol generally doesn't have to worry about who should do the housework and who should take care of the children. In the eyes of a good wife and mother, it is natural to do housework and take care of grandchildren. If you don't let her do it, she will have more opinions. I once met the mother-in-law of a colleague. When the grandson was just born, she said to her daughter-in-law, "I will hold the child in the future." I see. I'll pick them up at the kindergarten. You don't have to take care of the children yourself, but you can have fun as before. " A good wife and mother-in-law pay special attention to the family and hope to get the intimacy of their sons, daughters-in-law and even grandchildren through their own efforts. ? 0? 2? 0? Meeting a good wife and mother's mother-in-law has both advantages and disadvantages. They are generally not afraid of hardship and don't care how much housework they do, but they can't hear others say that sons are not a word. Their sons are generally lazy and dependent. To marry such a husband, you must always be ready to take over the baton of your mother-in-law and take care of this spoiled child. You don't have to expect to complain to anyone. If you complain to your mother-in-law that your child is lazy, you will only attract her dissatisfaction and get no support. To make matters worse, good wives and mother-in-law are generally frugal. She will interfere with your daily expenses of buying high-end fashion and cosmetics, and even try to change your lifestyle. Mother-in-law who is a good wife and mother generally dotes on her children. Training children in front of them will only make them more and more disobedient, and grandma with children will protect them. Mother-in-law is a good wife and mother, and generally likes to talk about family affairs. Generally, the topics are very narrow, all around her husband, children or daily necessities, and her parents are short-lived. If you show impatience, it will arouse the anger of your mother-in-law; A good wife and a good mother's mother-in-law are generally conservative, paying special attention to carrying on the family line. If you plan to dink, or want to have children in a few years, don't look for a good wife and mother-in-law. She will upset your life plan and even subvert your marriage. ? 0? 2? 0? Get along with a good wife and mother-in-law, and master three points to be calm. First, Shun, if she wants to have grandchildren early, you should have children early; She wants you to dress simply, not so modern and trendy. You can do it secretly when you are doing beauty, without telling her the real price of high-end fashion. You will be happy if she wants to take care of your children; She likes to chat with her, or at least learn to pretend to be interested. The second is forbearance. If she assigns you to do it for her husband, you must nod your head and say yes, and then you can direct her husband to do it. Don't say no to your husband in front of her, you'd better try to flatter her son, make her feel that her daughter-in-law is her bosom friend, and then quietly repair her son later; Children turn a blind eye when they are disobedient to their mother-in-law, and then educate them well when their mother-in-law is not around ... Third, filial piety, a good wife and mother are people who advocate material interests, and you don't need to buy them luxury goods such as gold, silver and jewelry. As long as you often buy food and do housework, eat desserts, be diligent in your legs and feet, and have a gentle personality, you will certainly win the favor of a good wife and mother. A smart mother-in-law is the kind of woman who gets out of the hall and into the kitchen. Her image should be good. Even though she looks ordinary, she at least looks tasteful through proper dress. For a man, it is lucky to get such a wife, not only to get it, but also to keep the house in order. But for the daughter-in-law who is also a woman, meeting this type of mother-in-law may not be a lucky thing. ? 0? 2? 0? Pan Hong, once known as the Queen of Sorrow in China, is now old and rarely appears on the big screen. However, she created a series of clever and even mean mother-in-law images in TV series, which made the heroine-daughter-in-law suffer a lot, and the final outcome was usually a tragedy. The image of smart and capable mother-in-law created by Pan Hong is representative to some extent. They are generally well-educated, with good family background, high taste and strong desire for control. Their daughter-in-law usually needs her permission to go through the door. The sons trained by this kind of mother-in-law are generally good men, who are passive and easy to be weak in front of their mothers. They are not irresponsible, but when their mother and wife have conflicts, they are generally afraid of their mother's authority and dare not publicly defend their wives. ? 0? 2? 0? Smart and capable mothers-in-law are generally energetic and very strict with themselves, so they have the same high requirements for their families and are naturally more demanding for their daughters-in-law. When you meet a clever mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law doesn't have to expect her to be duplicitous, because this type of mother-in-law is cautious and many fantasies can't escape her eyes. In front of such a mother-in-law, no matter what you say or do, you must be very decent. You can't be too hard on her, and you can't be too incompetent or careless. All she needs is a cold look, which can make you feel ashamed. As the saying goes, a diligent mother teaches a lazy daughter, and her mother is too capable, but her daughter can do nothing because she can't get the opportunity to exercise. By the same token, in front of such a clever mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law often seems at a loss and difficult to stand on. The mother-in-law is not a real mother. Your biological mother can tolerate all the shortcomings of her daughter, but a clever mother-in-law can't. At first, she may correct you with a smile, and then she may blame you or even despise you. ? 0? 2? 0? We often see such plots. A woman married to a rich family or a Gao Qian family wears away her personality and dignity little by little in the eyes of a smart mother-in-law. When dealing with a smart and capable mother-in-law, you must be neither humble nor supercilious. Don't lose yourself in the light of your mother-in-law. Only self-respect, self-love and self-improvement can win the respect of mother-in-law and family.