What is the experience of having a sleeping mother-in-law?

There is a mother-in-law who loves to sleep. At first, she thought she was lazy. After getting along for a long time, I felt quite good.

My mother and my mother-in-law are similar in age and life experience, but their personalities are quite different. My mother is very devoted. She gets up early every day all year round, feeds the chickens and ducks at home, cleans the room, cleans the yard and makes breakfast. When we got up, the house was clean and breakfast was ready. In winter, the charcoal fire has burned very vigorously.

My mother-in-law doesn't like getting up early, and she will get up early in summer because she gets up early in summer. In winter, she basically gets up at about the same time as us, and sometimes even when we get up, she hasn't got up yet. So when we get up, there is often no breakfast, so we have to cook by ourselves. Get up in winter, it's so cold, and you have to burn a charcoal fire yourself.

Just married for a year or two, I especially don't like to spend the New Year at my husband's house. Why? I always feel that I can't feel warm at my mother's house and I can't feel warm at my husband's house. I told my husband that when I got up in the morning, my home was so deserted, and my husband often looked disapproving. It is estimated that he has been accustomed to such a living environment for so many years, and he has ample food and clothing. Moreover, when my mother's family is compared with her husband's family, there is really no comparability, so there is no harm.

The more we get along with each other, the more we recognize that it is actually good to have a mother-in-law who loves to sleep. She does everything well in my mother's house and cares about us, but she likes to take care of us everywhere and nag about little things, which often annoys us and makes everyone feel bad. My mother-in-law likes sleeping, and she has the final say in many things. Anyway, we are all free at home. Although we have to do some housework, we can all play freely. She praised us for doing well, but she wouldn't say we didn't do well.

I like my mother-in-law more and more now. She lives a sober life and has her own way of living, instead of blindly paying for her family like some mother-in-law.