What kind of performance do heartless people often have in their lives? What types can they be divided into?

A reader told me that she recently met a person who felt particularly heartless.

He is cold to the opposite sex around him and seldom shows enthusiasm to others. Even if others are nice to him, he doesn't respond.

It seems that he just lives in his own world, and he doesn't want to be close to anyone, and he doesn't want anyone to know him, let alone know anyone. He has always been a couple.

The reader said that she didn't understand why there were such unreasonable people, at least she should know how to get along well with people around her.

In fact, in life, it is inevitable that there will be some people who are difficult to get close to, and such heartless people are often divided into three types.

Indifferent temperament, do not know how to love a person.

Some people, perhaps because of their growing environment or their early experiences, are so reticent that they don't know how to get close to others at all.

Over time, he was used to going his own way, too lazy to make friends and explain himself to anyone.

When he has been so withdrawn and rarely contacts with people, it is inevitable that he is very unfamiliar in dealing with people, and often only gives people a feeling of being inaccessible and very indifferent.

This kind of person doesn't want to love, but doesn't know how to love at all. He is even afraid of love and will deliberately avoid it. There is no way to fall in love with anyone normally and maintain a relatively harmonious relationship.

He is very adapted to one person's life and feels strange. He can't cope with the lives of two or more people.

If I don't like you, of course it's not good for you.

Sometimes, no matter how good you are to a person, he is not good to you. In fact, it is not necessarily because he is heartless, but because you are not the one he likes and wants to be affectionate.

A lot of people do. If he likes you, then he will be willing to accommodate you, will be willing to pay for you, will become very warm and will give you all his love without reservation.

But if he doesn't like you, then not only will he not be willing to take care of your feelings, but he won't even care about you.

For him, he just wants to give his love to the people he cares about. As for people he doesn't care about, he doesn't want to spend time or experience, and he will only be as rude as he is.

Maybe he is always unkind to people he doesn't like, but in front of people he likes, he will be a very loving person.

I was injured, so I wrapped myself up.

There is also such a person who spares no effort and tries his best when he loves someone for the first time.

But when he gave his whole body and mind, but was betrayed, cheated and disappointed, he might begin to doubt his feelings and be unwilling to give his heart to anyone.

From then on, he will completely close his heart. He just seems to have no real feelings for anyone.

It's not that he doesn't have love in his heart, but that he really doesn't dare to love again and dare not give his love to anyone easily.

Because he is really afraid of being hurt by another person. He really can't bear such pain. Instead, he might as well live quietly alone. Although he will be a little lonely, at least he doesn't have to lose himself because of anyone.

Desperate person, maybe he was born in cool thin and doesn't know much about feelings. Maybe he wants to cherish someone, not you. Maybe he has a history of hurting him.

How rude a person is, in fact, how affectionate he is, but his affection is where you can't see it.

In life, you don't have to say that a person is rude because you don't know what he has experienced, but when a person is rude to you, you don't have to be with him, but make him like you.

Don't overestimate yourself, a frozen heart is hard to melt. At first, he didn't want to melt for you, but in the end, I'm afraid he won't.

You should still find someone who is willing to warm you and let you into his heart.