What changes have you made since you went to college?

After I went to college, I became more worried about my parents, and dealing with strangers was not as uncomfortable and shy as before. I also learned to live alone and become independent.

After going to college, half a foot entered the society. The university is really different from the previous high school and junior high school. In the past, it seemed that all you had to do was learn well, and you didn't have to think too much about things or problems outside your study. My previous life was monotonous, under the control of my parents. But after leaving your parents to go to college, you have to deal with many things yourself, and your parents can't help you anymore. First of all, we college students should learn to manage their living expenses. Whether parents give us living expenses every month or every semester, we should learn to use them reasonably. After all, there is so much money, but there are many places to spend. Every time at the end of the month, I see that there are only a few dozen pieces of change left on my WeChat, and I feel that it is really easy to spend money and it is really difficult to earn money, so I really understand how difficult it is for my parents to pay for this family. Every penny is earned by their parents with sweat. So gradually, I will never buy things lavishly again. Before buying something, I will consider whether it is really necessary to buy it.

After going to college, we need to deal with many strangers. Join some clubs and meet some new friends. Before I went to college, my social circle was actually very simple. Most of my friends were developed by classmates. But it's very different in college. Join the club and you will have many opportunities to meet strangers at different levels. Take the school outreach department as an example. Because of their work needs, they have to look for sponsors everywhere, so they will deal with many different people. So when I went to college, when I was dealing with strangers, I had more sex, more natural and graceful, and I wouldn't be as coy as before.

Everyone's college life is very different, so everyone's college life trajectory is also very different, so few of us can find a friend who takes classes with you like high school. So I began to get used to going to the classroom alone (because my roommate went to the classroom late), taking part in community activities, eating alone (because my roommate prefers to order takeout), going to fun run and shopping in the supermarket alone. Although it can be lonely sometimes, I gradually get used to it. After all, if you always wait for others to accompany you, there are some things you will never take the initiative to do. Just like I miss fun run, but if my roommate goes with me, I can't run several times a semester. In college, I became more independent and had my own ideas, instead of always waiting for my parents' opinions. I want to learn guitar, so I will save money to buy a guitar and join a guitar club to take guitar lessons. If I want to travel, I will discuss with my friends that it is better to go there, and of course I will consider my own life safety. But I won't ask my parents for advice before I do everything as before, and now I can make complete decisions on some small things.