Psychological analysis of men's core divorce shows men's core divorce recovery skills

It is said that women are emotional and men are rational, so emotionally, men really want to be separated when they say goodbye or divorce, and they have no hope for this relationship, and their marriage is dead.

Psychological analysis of men's core divorce

1, a man is determined to divorce, probably because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, because it is very painful for a man to be caught between two women. On the one hand, his wife will always be his mother, so it is difficult for her to make any choice. If your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony in your marriage, it is easy for men to have the idea of divorce.

2. If the woman is profligate in the marriage, the man will also have the idea of divorce, because the man may not be so good at making money. At this time, if a woman spends money like water, then this man will be under certain pressure, thus generating ideas.

If a woman has a strong vanity in marriage, she will put a yoke on a man's head. If she always compares her husband with other successful men in life, men will be disheartened at this time. Because men will feel that they can't get a little affirmation here, since there is no need for two people to be together, they will choose to divorce.

Men's core divorce recovery skills

1, find out the problem between you.

If you get along well with your husband, your daily life is a model of Qi Mei, and he will definitely not have the idea of divorce. When you decide to give up, it must be because there is a problem between you, so you must find out the fundamental contradiction when you save it, otherwise all your actions will revolve around the essence of the problem.

2. Leave a quiet space for each other.

Try to leave a quiet space for you two when you save it, because you two are likely to quarrel because of differences of opinion. At this time, you need to calm down, otherwise the red face between two people will directly worsen your relationship.

3. Create opportunities for communication.

Creating some opportunities for two people to sit down and chat can make it more likely to be redeemed. When a man asks for a divorce, he may have cheated, he may be disappointed in you, or he may feel that his married life is not good. In short, there are many reasons. Find a suitable place to chat. Of course, when chatting, remember not to have a strong sense of need. Just like resolving conflicts between friends, you should be calm, apologize and communicate, don't be angry and accuse each other, and cut off the possibility of your recovery.

4. Understand the husband's inner needs.

If a woman wants her husband to love herself more, be considerate of herself and go home on time in his busy work, she must first be a good wife in her husband's heart and understand his inner needs.

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What is the probability of a man's core divorce recovery?

The husband filed for divorce during the marriage, and the rate of turning back was basically zero. Men rarely have the idea of divorce, and generally don't talk about it unless they really feel that they can't live any longer. Men are naturally afraid of getting married. Really, I'm not lying to you. All men are subconsciously afraid of getting married. Because marriage means responsibility. Just living with you, men will feel relaxed, but if they get married, men will feel a lot heavier on their shoulders. In fact, men subconsciously tend to take care of women, but he doesn't show it. But why do men ask for a divorce? Men are weak in marriage. After marriage, women are usually better than men. In marriage, men are squeezed by women. After marriage, women will have many demands on men. Which one do you want? Although some of them are only secondary requirements, they are just cages for men who are completely laissez-faire. When to go home, don't throw clothes, don't take off your shoes ... and so on. After marriage, this seems to be a small demand, but when there are more small demands, it becomes a big demand. Most men are in a weak position after marriage. Some people will soon explode with dissatisfaction with their patience. So it will become a domestic violence and a family cold war. Why do some men become lazy after marriage? Because he feels like a slave, laziness is sometimes a silent protest. Psychological research has found that, even if divorce is real, 40% people try to get back together after divorce, and 10%- 17% people finally remarry after divorce. This also includes the case where the man filed for divorce. In fact, whether the marriage can go back does not depend on who filed for divorce, but on whether the two sides have increased their emotional investment and management and made efforts to improve the marriage relationship after discovering the marriage problem.

Husband wants a divorce. Save your breath.

1. Although I have changed a lot since I got married, no matter how I change it, I can't change our initial heart. If I am difficult and tired now, then I can change slowly, but it takes time.

Every day after you come home, I always nag behind you and always want to talk to you a lot. In fact, I just want you to contact me more and pay more attention to me. I, this is also the best expression of my love for you, but I didn't expect that I would make you feel bored, so I will change myself, but my love for you will never change.

3, the two of us from the understanding of love, and finally entered the marriage hall, although I will quarrel with you during this time, a little unreasonable and annoying, but my ultimate goal is actually to make you love me more.