I can't get along with my mother and I can't communicate. What should I do?

Avoid the topic of debate, talk to your mother more about what happened this day, talk about her activities this day, get to know your parents' thoughts from the dialogue, tell them your thoughts in the dialogue, get to know them better, often accompany her around, let her slowly understand your world, and naturally you will understand your thoughts. Their ideas will not change casually, so you should have patience to communicate with them.