20 chat skills that people with low emotional intelligence must see.

20 chat skills that people with low emotional intelligence must see.

What's it like to "chat and talk" with people with high emotional intelligence?

1. When chatting, replace "I" with "we".

2. Say and replace "but" with "if".

3. Some people praised your good figure and replaced "No" with "You are different, even if your figure is good, your face value is still the same".

4. Some people praised you for your good capacity for drinking, replacing "I have a bad capacity for drinking" with "I really can't drink, mainly because you are in a good mood and have a different capacity for drinking".

When someone calls you sick, replace "you are sick" with "you are not infected".

6. Others praise you for being good-looking, replacing "you are good-looking" with "you are better, not only people are good-looking, but also people like to talk".

7. The leader said that you have worked hard, and replaced "not hard" with "nothing, what should I do? The leader is harder than me!" .

People tell you that the clothes you are wearing today are really beautiful. Replace "OK" with "Thank you, your hairstyle is good today."

9. People say that you are a little short. What does it matter to you that I am short? Replace it with "No way, they are all pressed by the face value."

10, when the leaders praise you for your good work, replace "thank you for your praise" with "all the leaders have taught you well".

1 1. When someone says they want to go to the movies, replace "What movie to see" with "When am I free now".

12, when someone asks you your age, you can reply like this. "Everyone says I look like 18, which is probably the first secretary with you.

13. When asking for help from others, add "OK" at the end of the sentence.

14. When someone sends you a smile on WeChat, you don't know how to reply, saying, "You look good when you smile".

15. When someone asks if you are in, you say, "Tell me what's going on first, and then I'll decide if you are in." .

16, don't just say "hello" on the phone, it's better to add "hello" at the back, which will be polite and respect each other.

17, when receiving a gift from others, don't say "thank you", but say the mood of receiving the gift.

18, when someone says "thank you for your help", you can say "I'm a stranger, don't mention it, I need to trouble you in the future".

19, when someone praises you: "You are so talented", you can say: "Thank you for your compliment, I appreciate your vision more than that".

20. When someone says "Your face value is really high", you can say "I like the way you tell the truth so seriously".