My eldest brother died unfortunately, and my wife didn't want to raise my two nephews. What should I do?

This question about interests may be meaningless, so we must find another way to solve this problem better, such as letting my wife invest in raising two big nephews and get a return in the future. All the noise in the world is for profit. As long as it is profitable, there is still room for negotiation and maneuver in many things. Tell your wife how old these two nephews are now, and we will record every sum of money spent on them, and then return it to us when he grows up and goes out to work. Of course, we can calculate according to the bank deposit interest rate, or double the bank deposit interest rate, so that they can fulfill this promise many years later.

Although it sounds cruel, I don't think it is a moral kidnapping. After all, your eldest brother died unfortunately, and he left two children. These two children are not related to your wife. As a married person, she cares about herself and her family as well as her children, so we must consider this issue from your wife's point of view. If she only does voluntary work and charity without any reward, she will definitely not want to. After all, she has to pay for this family, which is also hard. She doesn't want to waste all her hard work and achievements. What we should do is to help our two nephews and make our wives willing to share the burden, instead of fighting with each other for their own purposes, which will be in big trouble.

It is really pitiful that our brother left two children after his death. If you don't lend a helping hand at this time, what these two children will do in the future is really a problem. In order not to be condemned by morality and poked by others, we must shoulder this responsibility.

Of course, taking this responsibility does not mean doing charity. After all, some students can apply for interest-free loans when the university money is not enough, so we can also refer to this policy and provide them with necessary living conditions and financial support in a paid way so that they can repay them when they are independent in the future. This will make your partner feel better and naturally solve this problem better.