After my father-in-law had a cerebral infarction,

1

I was at work that day and saw my daughter's father send a video in the family group, followed by the voice: "Dad can walk twice in the inner dam".

Daughter, her uncle replied: Our father is great!

I immediately turned on the video: Sure enough, my father-in-law who had been in bed for nearly two months because of a cerebral infarction was able to walk independently. It's really a miracle that people still need help even the day before, and the change is so great. I said to my husband without any worries: "They are much relieved, don't insist any more!"

Husband said: "Nothing, just exercise him, my brother is watching at any time."

I sincerely sigh that the whole family, Qi Xin, are all afraid of this disease.

When I sent a circle of friends, I also said that my father-in-law was recovering day by day ... Sister Xue Mei immediately left a message "This is a blessing".

It seems that it is really a blessing.

2

I remember that on the evening of June 12, my mother-in-law called and anxiously said to her husband, "Your father is dying. I don't even know him. Come back and see. "

My husband answered the phone and immediately contacted my eldest brother who worked in the government to discuss sending my father to the county hospital for examination the next day.

Early in the morning, we hurried home. My eldest brother has driven back from Baima. Mother-in-law packed her toiletries and helped her trembling father-in-law get on the bus.

On the way, in order not to let my father fall asleep, we kept asking him questions. But at that time, his brain was not very clear. As soon as his eyes were opened and closed, it was difficult to speak. Fortunately, it is a high-speed, and it takes more than 40 minutes to drive to the county hospital.

After getting off the bus, I helped my unstable father into the hospital hall and sat down. The two brothers went to queue up to register, and soon finished the admission formalities. It's almost noon after a comprehensive examination of CT and ECG.

At about six o'clock in the afternoon, when I was working outside, I received a phone call from my husband: Dad is really going to die. Let me hurry back to the hospital and inform my daughter about her aunt and her father.

When I rushed to the hospital non-stop, my sister, brother-in-law, eldest brother and younger brother were all in front of my father's bed. Looking at my sister with tears in her bed and my father with eyes closed, my eyes were wet. I thought it was the last time.

Several brothers and sisters discussed their father's affairs. ...

At night, the diagnosis showed that the brain cells died in a large area. At present, there is no life-threatening, but semi-paralysis is inevitable. Three highs have caused various complications such as diabetes, and it depends on the patient's fate in the later stage.

We are grateful, as long as there is no danger to our lives, it is a big deal to fight paralysis for a long time. Because each of us has to go to work, we have to take turns to take care of it. My daughter, dad, we have more time. Our two brothers take care of it for a week, and our eldest brother takes care of it for two days at the weekend.

June 16, Father's Day.

When all the living fathers were receiving the children's "Happy Father's Day" wishes, our father, my daughter's grandfather, was lying in a coma in the hospital bed.

We also want to say, "Happy holidays, Dad!"

However, his brain is unconscious and can't hear our blessings. When the doctor diagnosed a large area of brain cell necrosis, another blood clot pressed on the neck, making it difficult to even speak, and even we couldn't recognize who we were.

A veteran cadre who once dominated politics for decades said that he would fall without warning, which really caught us young people off guard. ...

On the Dragon Boat Festival, the family was still happy and talked about the Dragon Boat Festival with a smile. Who would have thought that at that time, the focus had already launched an attack on the old man, but there was no trace under his strong appearance, and he also brought tea and water to our children.

What a good old man and kind father.

On holidays, it is their happiest time for parents to take their sister home. Father, in particular, is always busy with fruit and boiled water. I also urge my mother from time to time: I have cooked lunch, and I am cooking good food today! At this time, the two brothers will deliberately tease: Dad, this! When the old man saw it, he smiled and said, "That's a lot of money. It's no problem to have a meal. "

So he took money out of his clothes bag and said, "Who will arrange your life?" Sometimes a really big family will go to the sea to eat. Of course, in most cases, my brother and sister cook, wash vegetables and stir-fry together, and soon the table is full of steaming dishes, and everyone is very satisfied.

Just a few days before my father's birthday, my sister and I had a private discussion. How can we celebrate this birthday for him?

Who ever thought ...

After entering the hospital, my father was completely unconscious and incontinent. I heard that the three brothers were talking about working, and I cried at the first time. I can't accept this fact. Your parents gave birth to you and raised you. When you don't do it yourself when your son needs it most, but ask a nurse to take care of you, what's the use of raising your son? Didn't you say that raising children to prevent old age? It's only been a few days, that's all. What happened afterwards?

Fortunately, my little sister at home persuaded me later. She said, "Second sister, you haven't served patients with incontinence, so you don't know what it's like. Moreover, the care workers are more professional and the care is more comprehensive. Their families always have to stay with them. Everyone has to go to work and take turns to rest, which is more conducive to the recovery of patients. " Think about it is also the reason, can only reluctantly acquiesce.

June 23rd is my father-in-law's 77th birthday.

Superstition says that in order to celebrate his birthday, he must be given this birthday to avoid this robbery. This birthday is very special. My niece bought a cake, and the whole family sang a birthday song in the ward to spend it with the elderly. I also invited three relatives and six relatives to hold four tables in the hotel. Everyone didn't know if dad could get together after this birthday, so the atmosphere was once dull, and the soft-hearted daughter and aunt wiped their tears.

In this way, after living in the county hospital for two weeks, his condition did not improve. Don't give him infusion every day, and don't check his blood sugar. Father is in a daze and his blood pressure is unstable. Mother-in-law used to be so strong that she secretly cried several times.

It's useless. My mother-in-law looked depressed and even said angrily, "He only has this life."

But our brothers and sisters didn't give up, and we should try our best to cure them anyway. What's more, there is no need to consider the cost of medicine, and the proportion of reimbursement for civil servants is high. Even those old people in the countryside need medical treatment even if they have no money, which is known to all our brothers and sisters.

Several uncles advised us to transfer to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Chongqing. The hospital is relatively large and there are medicines. Maybe it will get better.

On June 25th, my eldest niece, who works in the Second Affiliated Hospital of Chongqing, is the daughter of her husband's eldest brother. She contacted the bed in advance and arranged for her father to be admitted directly. The test results are exactly the same as those of the county hospital. The doctor's diagnosis is still brain cell necrosis, three highs, diabetes and so on.

The same infusion, blood drawing, blood test ... just different drugs, occasionally helping out of bed and taking a few steps, my mother-in-law seems to see a glimmer of hope. We are at home and care about our illness every day, and video with them. You can say your name when you are awake, and you will be crowned with pride when you are confused.

Fresh crucian carp sent by colleagues, I cooked soup for my sister who was visiting her father in Chongqing to eat. The daughter who works in Chongqing also cooks soup for grandpa and sends it to the hospital. My second niece and nephew, who work in Chongqing, take time to go to the hospital to accompany their father.

Diabetics and diabetics have many taboos. They can't eat or touch. My mother-in-law is distressed to see her father-in-law slim down day by day. Instead of wasting it like this, it is better to go home and recuperate.

three

On July 10, at the insistence of her mother-in-law, her father-in-law who had lived in the Second Affiliated Hospital for half a month was taken home.

After returning home, the three sisters-in-law were busy mopping the floor, cleaning up the house and throwing away everything that our parents should have thrown away. The house is much easier. The three brothers are also busy moving their father's bedroom, considering being closer to the toilet so that he can go to the toilet. It turns out that the air-conditioned room is far from the toilet, so I bought an air conditioner and changed the bed. ...

Everyone says we have more time. When we are not at work, I cook, and my husband takes care of daily medication and goes to the toilet.

I agreed without complaint. Since then, my quiet life has been chaotic. I used to be free to read and write after work, but now I have to go to my parents' home after work. The whole family depends entirely on me to eat and drink Lazar, and sometimes I am really tired.

My husband sets the alarm clock to six in the morning every day. As soon as the alarm clock rings, he gets up and goes to his parents' house to change his father-in-law's diaper, wash dirty clothes and trousers, feed medicine and wait on his father-in-law to go to the toilet ... I get up and go to the market to buy fresh vegetables and fruits, and cook food for his father-in-law in different ways every day. At nearly ten o'clock in the evening, we helped him go to the toilet for the last time and changed his diaper before going home to rest.

Under the careful care of everyone, he is a little better, but his left foot is still weak, and he walks like lead. No matter whether there is hope or not, our brothers and sisters are still working hard as always, doing their last filial piety in their own way and fighting against the disease together. Bring delicious food to bed at every meal and feed it to dad bite by bite. Often wash his hair, soak his feet and scrub his body.

four

A few days later, my mother-in-law remembered a distant cousin in Guizhou, a private doctor, mainly Chinese medicine, and acupuncture. My mother-in-law decided to try. None of us dare to disobey. After all, it is the last straw.

On July 28th, I finally hoped that Uncle Yang was carrying a big bag of medicine. After dinner, after a brief greeting, I began to look at my father. He said: "It's not a big problem. My father-in-law will definitely be able to stand up and walk independently."

A word made everyone cry with joy, like a reassurance.

The next day, I began to wrap, soak and wash with my uncle's special Chinese medicine. Husband and brother follow around the clock to do odd jobs and run errands.

My father-in-law wrapped in white cloth is like a wounded soldier coming down from the battlefield. Watching the old man groan, we prayed secretly.

When my brother is not at work, he always pushes his father-in-law around the inner dam in a wheelchair to breathe fresh air in the morning and evening. I wash my father's clothes and trousers, and my sister-in-law also cooks and cleans up the housework on weekends. Big brothers and big sisters often take time to come back to see them. They are far away and have to go to work, which is relatively inconvenient. Only our two brothers are closer to home, so the focus of courage falls on us. After my father-in-law became ill, everyone revolved around the axis of my father, never caring who served more and who served less, but understanding each other and closely uniting around my parents.

After several days of acupuncture, massage and drug conditioning, my grandfather looks better and better every day. The key is to walk slowly.

Looking at the changes from day to day, we are happy from the heart. God has eyes! Our family's efforts have not been in vain, even if we try harder, as long as dad can get better, that is our greatest happiness as children.

five

A filial piety before death is really better than a hundred grave-sweeping after death.

Tomb-Sweeping Day burns thousands of piles of paper money, so it's really better to serve a bowl of rice.

Other things in life, you can wait calmly, only filial piety can't wait. If you miss it, you will regret it for a lifetime.