Do you think you are a competent mother?

I think I am a competent mother. I think I can be a good mother as long as I do the following three things, and I have done them all.

1, willing to share your dreams with you.

A good mother, first of all, must be a good friend worthy of her children's trust, so that she can tell you the little secret in her heart at ease. In the hearts of small people, there is a great dream, which is really strange, and some of them are unexpected to adults. But it is precisely because they have this beautiful dream in their hearts that life has a different color. As a mother, you should take care of your children's dreams. My children are willing to share their dreams with me.

2. Enjoy being alone with you

What is the highest state of getting along? Just two words, "comfortable". In fact, many children like to be bored with their mothers when they are young. The mother's maternal brilliance and considerate mind give the child enough sense of security and happiness. But some children grow up and have their own small world and circle of friends, but they always want to escape from their mother's sight.

One of my cousins, the way she gets along with her mother is that, most of the time, she quarrels and breaks up. The more they can't talk well, the more difficult they are to get along with, and a word may annoy each other at any time. The reason is probably that when I was a child, I didn't establish a gravitational magnetic field between mother and daughter, a harmonious and trusting intimate relationship.

Don't underestimate this. When I was a child, this kind of solitude between children and their mothers will indeed leave a lot of warm marks in the children's hearts, and the impression of a good mother will initially solidify in the children's hearts. My child wants to be with me on purpose, not alone with her father.

Please help when you make a mistake.

When children get along with the world for the first time, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps and contradictions. Whenever they make mistakes or are frustrated, they need their parents to lend them a helping hand and guide them out of this gloomy area. Many times, children know that they have done something wrong or failed, and their hearts are very uncomfortable.

The signal they want to send is: Who will tell me what to do and what to do next? But some parents, not only haven't received the signal from their children for a long time, but also think that their children are doing too badly and should face the wall and think about it. If children feel their parents' mentality, most of them will not ask their parents for help, but they will think they are wrong, but there is nothing they can do. I can only stand still and accept the accusations and complaints from my parents.

If you are a generous mother and are willing to give advice to your children, they will find hope in you. He knows that he will ask you what you did wrong and how to do it well at the first time. A good mother won't hold on to her children's mistakes. She will help children analyze the situation, point out the maze, and let them know that their mother will help you at any time. When my child makes a mistake, he will tell me and ask me for help.