Listen carefully

(Reposted) Zhu Ziqing said in prose: "It is not easy to speak."

Some people don't talk much, but they can make people happy when they speak;

Even if some people are eloquent, opening their mouths makes people feel bored.

Speaking is a real art and a required course for adults.

People who can talk have long understood that the best way for people to get along is:

Listening is cultivation, speaking carefully is education, and silence is cultivation.

I have heard a saying: "Silence while listening can move people's hearts more than a thousand words."

Listening is a silent expression, and it is a comparison of hearts, which represents Acceptance and understanding.

It can shorten the distance between people and is more powerful than talking incessantly. It is also respect, self-cultivation, and a person’s timeless charm.

Although the famous actor Ge You is famous, he is low-key and humble. The most comfortable thing is that when talking to him, you always have a "sense of superiority."

In social entertainment venues, When everyone drinks and chats together, there are always a few people who like to talk loudly.

At this time, there are always people who interrupt others mercilessly: "You are just showing off, who doesn't know this!"

In this way, there is no one to speak. Even if you are interested, you will feel very embarrassed.

Ge You has never been like this. Some people say that he will listen patiently and respond from time to time:

"I really don't know this. I have to listen to you to explain it carefully."

Is he really so ignorant?

Of course not. Many times he can guess the follow-up after hearing the beginning, but he never interrupts other people's conversations rashly, but rather saves face for the other person.

The famous host Liang Hongda once said about Ge You on the show: "If you have been in contact with him, you will 100% like him."

A person who can speak can win the audience. ; But only by listening well can you win friends.