How is that female classmate who forced me to kneel down now?

Text/Ruoshui Xiyan

Picture/Ruoshui Xiyan

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Whenever I see news about campus bullying Every now and then, that face will appear in front of my eyes, and the past events are still vivid in my mind, even if almost twenty years have passed.

Maybe my memory is too good, or maybe the shame is too unforgettable. Now when I tell others about that past incident, no one believes me. They wonder how someone as hardcore as me could be bullied. But the truth is that I was bullied.

I just entered kindergarten at that time. I was three or four years old. I was relatively young and loved to play. I always liked to run to the playground to play wildly during recess. When the bell rang, I hurried to the classroom. run.

It was like this every day. Suddenly one day, everything changed. The teacher didn’t come to that class. As soon as I and a few other friends ran back to the classroom, we were forced to the back of the classroom by a girl. She She forced everyone to kneel down, and kicked me if they didn't. When she asked me to kneel down, but I didn't kneel down, she kicked me on the knee, which was so painful that I didn't even know what happened next.

After I got home, I told my mother about this. My mother went to school to find her and told her not to bully her classmates. As a result, the girl was not only not afraid but also scolded my mother fiercely. My mother scolded her. I called her outside the classroom and asked her if she would hit me again. She shouted loudly that she would hit me again. At this time, even the senior students upstairs couldn't stand it anymore. They said that this girl always bullies her classmates and asked my mother to teach her a lesson. Dayton.

Up to this moment, the girl who bullied me showed no sign of repentance and kept scolding her. My mother got angry and slapped her in the face, but she still cried and scolded her.

It is really hard to imagine that the unpleasant words came from the mouth of a child of several years old. Now that I think about it, I feel that a child can be so evil.

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I never saw this girl at school again after that day. In the following years, my mother and I saw her several times on the street, and she kept staring. I see. Her face is still unclean, but her eyes are no longer as arrogant as before. But seeing her face, I still can't associate her with innocence and kindness.

The last time I saw her was when I was in junior high school. Her mother had a small business and she was helping. She was slovenly, but her eyes always loved to stare at people, as if being It was like a venomous snake was targeting her. I passed by and heard her mother scolding her. It was still unpleasant words.

At that moment I understood why she had been so vicious since she was a child.

Fortunately my mother went to school to find her, otherwise I and others might have been bullied by her.

When I saw the news about campus bullying, I was very grateful to my mother for running to school to seek justice for me, because once the bullying happened for the first time, it would happen countless times.

As for what happened to the girl who forced me to kneel down back then, I don’t care and I don’t want to know. In short, she will not live well.

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After this incident, my mother told me that if someone bullies me at school, let me tell her or the teacher. And I also understand that most of the children who can be bullied are weak, do not know how to resist, and do not have strong backing.

Later, I studied hard since elementary school. As a "good student" in the eyes of the teacher, naturally no one dared to bully me.

And those children who don’t know how to resist, give up on themselves, and whose parents don’t care, are not as lucky as me.

I have seen students throw rubbish on them and being asked to clean the classroom every day. I have also seen students throw books and pens into the toilet, and others were pulled into a corner and beaten every day. of.

As far as I know, none of these victims have finished junior high school. They live in the shadow of campus bullying, with no one seeking justice for them. They are timid, fragile, and self-defeating, and may only be like that for the rest of their lives.

A survey in the United States shows that those who were bullied for a long time as children are 4.8 times more likely to be depressed, 4.3 times more likely to be anxious, and 18.5 times more likely to commit suicide!

Bullying not only causes physical harm to children, but also causes psychological trauma that is difficult to recover from.

The 2017 "China School Bullying Survey Report" shows that the incidence of school bullying in central my country is as high as nearly 50%.

Baidu searches for vicious incidents of campus bullying abound. Such bullying can, at the least, cause the victim to be psychologically shadowed for life; at worst, it can directly cause disability or death, causing the destruction of many families.

In the face of bullying, all we can do is inform parents and teachers in a timely manner and take appropriate measures to kill bullying the first time. It must not be tolerated.

Don’t think that you are just a child. Children are just playing around. Sometimes children are really evil when they are evil.

Just as Lu Xun wrote at the end of "Diary of a Madman":

I hope there will be no more bullying in schools, and I hope all children can grow up healthily!

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