Some misunderstandings in the Alphabet Smooth Circle

_Some misunderstandings in the Alphabet Smooth Circle

How much do you know about some misunderstandings in the Alphabet Smooth Circle? Let’s talk today. I hope that my experience and insights can help everyone face themselves and clarify their inner truth! Still the same sentence: More introspection, more sincerity! Okay, no more nonsense! Let’s talk about the most frequently asked questions today!

Why can’t I find M?

Actually, how should I say this? After all, everyone is different, and their hearts and true thoughts are different. What should we do? Based on my personal experience and some opinions, I have summarized the following points:

1. Do you regard finding M as the center of your life?

Many people feel extremely empty during their free time. I always think about whether I can accept this M. Even regardless of whether they have S or whether you are in line with their taste, spend all your time and energy on finding M.

However, when you feel that half of your time is focused on how to find a suitable M, your charm value has dropped by more than half.

Because, every M is looking for more than just someone to sleep with, otherwise what she needs is not you, but a man. At the same time, if you continue to post M-seeking posts with very few replies, it will appear that your posts are too casual and too general, and your appeal will be greatly reduced!

How to solve: So you have to show yourself, Your life, your hobbies, your views on the circle, etc.

In addition, if there are not many replies to private messages, why not try to evaluate her updates and interact with her?

2. Do you take the execution of tasks for granted?

What many S want after M is a result. You are my M, so you must be loyal, obedient and respectful to me. When you get this result and think that you have a master-slave relationship, are together, and have sex, you feel that nothing is wrong.

I am planning to start getting another M. He began to neglect the current M and no longer cared about her various things and emotions. It has become a vicious cycle (but some S are not, most of them are the so-called "pseudo" people who do not have a clear true heart)!

The result is that they fight each other, hurt each other, etc.!

Solution: We must understand that in a serious relationship, we hope that it will accompany us throughout our lives, so we need to manage it all the time to achieve happiness, and never take the existence of feelings for granted.

If one day your M chooses to refuse your instructions, or even be indifferent to you. Ask yourself, did you have sufficient communication before issuing the order? Did you really just treat her as a toy during this period?

3. Do you think anything can be changed?

"I want to shape my M"

This is the sentence I hear the most. What if M doesn't listen to you or doesn't develop in the direction you want?

"Hit me!"

Sorry, I really don't think you are an S, your He looks very much like a domestic violence man! You know, even if she chooses to surrender to you, she still belongs to an individual.

It is not easy to reshape an M from his personality. Don’t think that after reading two novels or seeing the “perfect” type of M created by a few big guys in the circle, you will start to be eager to give it a try and think that you can do it too. In fact, you don’t understand how difficult their intentions are~

In fact, choice is more important than change. From the beginning, I feel that an M’s personality is very strong, but you just make do with it just to be together, so why not Don't be together in the first place. Even reshaping the personality requires full negotiation between both parties and is done within a controllable range.

So recognize yourself and just take a look! Don’t try, because you haven’t reached that level yet!

4. Kind-hearted and soft-hearted?

There is a very popular word now called "nuan", which means warm master, warm uncle, warm father, etc. There are always all kinds of pampering and care. Sometimes M is very domineering and spoiled.

Of course, I personally think this is related to the many idiotic articles on the Internet. Many M's turn the unconditional love given by S into something to show off and compare with, but they break up after two or three months. Every time the master-slave relationship It all looks like fast food.

The reason is that your excessive "doting" has led to her (his) "embarrassment", and each other's "unscrupulousness" has caused each other to form a vicious cycle!

Solution: You have to understand that you can be warm, but you have to be warm. If you want to be attractive to M, she must at least look up to and respect you to some extent. If someone is pampering and pampering you, why don't you find a normal boyfriend or girlfriend? For example: experience, ability, family background, education, etc.

In addition, if you want to be respected by others, you must respect yourself first. Blindly giving up your self-esteem and blindly kneeling and licking will only lead to the greed of the other party.

5. Make an appointment casually

Many people get together after meeting each other online. I may have experienced several Internet T-Ts. Then we are eager to meet each other and hope to have some physical contact so that we can get to know each other better. Especially the newbie S, who has never practiced it once.

I was lucky enough to find M. I started the game for the first time without even knowing the most basic precautions, so I often returned disappointed.

If two people are in love for a long time, especially in the morning and evening. Don’t be in a hurry, wait until you know her well enough, how to play and what to pay attention to, then make a date!

6. Full of desire?

This will often show up In chatting with each other. In fact, I have told many friends countless times, don’t start talking as soon as we chat. You must know that before you become her S, you may be just a **** in her eyes. Talking too much will only make M think you are superficial and annoying.

I hope you can be careful with your words and actions!

If you have your own views and opinions, you are welcome to join the Sihuan dating community and discuss it with everyone~