Why do college couples break up after graduation?

I just graduated this year, and I met a boyfriend in my freshman year. After talking for four years, I was particularly loving and tolerant. He is completely self-centered. Four years in college, he accompanied me shopping for dinner. I feel that he doesn't have his own circle and is particularly dependent on me. Later, we rented a house outside, and gradually our living habits changed and we began to quarrel. We often quarrel, but strangely, our feelings are getting better and better. Maybe we are used to loneliness! We often break up, but because we are so familiar with each other, we always bow to each other every two days.

I graduated this year and we have been together for more than four years. My hometown is far away, and my family doesn't support it. In order to be together, he went to Beijing to develop, and I chose to be with him. But the reality is that two people, on a hot day, apply for interviews everywhere and have no time to fall in love together. After work, we all took care of each other. At that time, I discovered that the so-called boyfriend is a person who doesn't help me at all. I have to scrimp and save on daily necessities, and I can't bear to part with it. Think about it. I just graduated and I'm young. Is it necessary to become a yellow-faced woman by refusing to buy clothes and cosmetics to save money?

After working for a month, I decided to go back to my hometown. I really can't stand the efficient pace of life. After I went home, he also went back to Tianjin. Now I am a teacher in my hometown, and he has just found a job in Tianjin. He came to see me once, lost a lot of weight, and finally broke up.

Netizen 2:

After graduating from college, there are two reasons for breaking up. One is that there are many things to consider after leaving society and many material needs. The other is that two people choose different directions. Campus love, many people expect, many people want to find an object on campus, thinking that they can last forever, and they will not worry about not having an object in their future work, but some people don't like campus love, think it won't last long, just pursue temporary happiness, and the probability of breaking up after graduation is also quite high.

First of all, I think it's campus love, unless you two really have plans for the future and plan to keep going. Although they come from different cities, they are all willing to work hard in the same city. This relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend can be maintained all the time, and only those who have clear goals for both of them can maintain it. I also support this relationship. If two people come from different cities, but some want to go back to their own cities after graduation, but the other person doesn't want to go to your city, anyway, two people choose different places and then become long-distance relationships. Except for a few people who really love each other, most of them have a high chance of breaking up.

Also, when you are on campus, if you want to find a companion, you can take advantage of the money for eating. Occasionally, people will give gifts during holidays. How wonderful it is to help others raise their wives. After graduation, I found that I had a higher pursuit and wanted to find someone with social experience, thinking that I would not have to worry about eating and drinking in the future, and then the campus love ended decisively. To put it bluntly, it is to go out to the society and pursue higher material.

Netizen 3:

Love, love, love, but after you leave society, what you want changes. You are no longer looking for someone just for love, but for marriage! On campus, as long as you like it, it is good to be happy together, which is beautiful, but when it comes to society, the real society is not a fairy tale. Two people like each other and love each other for a long time. There are many temptations and obstacles around them. I think if two people grow up and can walk out of campus, the most important thing is that they can work together as long as they have the heart, even if they pursue different things. As long as they have the heart, I believe it is not the only one. I was young before I got married. I envy those partners who can walk from campus to life. There is nothing better than falling in love on campus. From innocence to maturity, I have been supporting each other and accommodating each other. If there are couples who are still willing to walk from campus, please cherish it. We must cherish it.

It's really hard to find someone after work. Not everyone is as innocent as they were on campus. The real society is cruel and false. Too much material pursuit is too realistic. Anyway, meeting and falling in love is fate. Even if it can't last long, please cherish the present.

Netizen 4:

There is a simple reason. In our school, college girls need money and boys give it to them, because boys with better family conditions will not support it. Poor children in college are willing to give money to girls for dating. When they make money in society, they will have no money, and girls will become realistic, so they will break up. The break-up rate is also very high, and now the college students in our school also say that they just play with each other.

Netizen 5:

The first possibility is to find a job that is more suitable for you after graduation. After all, people's feelings are changeable. Second, the two sides can't reach an agreement on their future plans, and they can't compromise with each other. If the conflict intensifies, they can only break up. Third, at school, both sides did not consider the future. After the blow of reality, their feelings are not as good as material and they regret breaking up. Externally, the employment situation, career planning, family situation, geographical influence after graduation, and most importantly, the time spent with each other after work has decreased. This gap may be unacceptable to many people, and eventually they have no choice but to break up.

The reason why every couple breaks up is not a simple one, it may be a variety of reasons. I hope that every kind person will have the other half to support him and never part.

Netizen 6:

The first is that most college couples are in different places after graduation, and their feelings will gradually fade. The second is that their life circles after graduation are completely inconsistent, which will lead to differences in outlook on life and values in the future and fewer topics. Third, we will start to consider many practical factors.