What is the most painful experience in your life?

In 20 17, a close relative died, and I know that time is precious. In 20 17, a relative was seriously ill and signed a notice of serious illness, which made him more aware of the heavy responsibility. 20 17, there are tears, laughter, suffering and happiness.

The most painful experience of my life, in retrospect, is nothing. People always grow up in suffering or are destroyed. Fortunately, I spent that time safely.

My aunt left before she saw her cousin get married and have children.

My little aunt and I work in the same company. I used to drive her to work and tell her everything.

She has much contact with people in other departments, and sometimes she will tell me when she hears something related to me to confirm whether it is like that.

She didn't feel well the year before last, so she resigned and went home to recuperate. It was not until last year that my health became worse and worse that I was sent to the city hospital for examination and treatment.

But it may be that the medical level is limited and the technology is not enough. After so many tests, even the cause was not diagnosed. And it's getting worse every day.

So, I was transferred to another hospital and took pains to send my aunt to the provincial hospital for treatment.

Be checked again, and then be tossed.

One day, my aunt said in her family's WeChat group, I'm afraid I can't go back. Let me bury my bones and forget it.

Then one night, seeing that the treatment was hopeless, my cousin and uncle took my aunt home. When I got home, my aunt died suddenly.

It's really sudden, because not long ago, she told a former colleague that she wanted me to help her pick the leaves of the park seeds, and she could ask me what to change the TV at home ... ...

People always go through death and parting. It's too sudden and unprepared. How can I accept it? -My cousin's circle of friends.

Empathy, I don't know what to say. How painful it is for a child to want to raise and not be with his relatives.

However, fate, like a joke, gave me another heavy blow.

My grandmother, who hasn't seen her grandson yet, took her wife and children to visit her old man's house and died.

Grandma is in poor health, so I go to see her every weekend.

Clean up her house, talk to her and listen to her complaints. However, grandma still has her own mobility, can hear what I say, can eat by herself, and does not need to be fed. Life care, and uncles and aunts. ...

But one day, she fell down and never stood up again.

Perhaps, the great pain of life is unexpected and heartbreaking. It was this sudden accident that gave us a deeper painful experience.

However, no matter what kind of pain we suffer, we need to face it firmly.

Until the end of last year, my mother was seriously ill in hospital.

I have always praised my ability to control my emotions. However, when signing the "notice of serious illness", I almost couldn't help but go on the spot. ...

Fortunately, I have been recovering from treatment, and there is no worst case that the doctor is worried about, and there are no other special circumstances.

At the end of the year, the doctor finally said, "My condition has improved and I can leave the hospital." Mom went home.

Moreover, the latest examination showed that the situation has improved, and it is not necessary to cooperate with drug treatment and slowly recover.

People's pain, to a certain extent, will really raise their threshold and lower their expectations, which will become very easy to satisfy.

For me, my family is alive and stable in this world, and no matter how great the pain is, it is not pain. It's good to be alive.