How to understand girls' persistence in bags?

Boys around me often ask me what gifts to give girls for this Girls' Day, Goddess Day and various Valentine's Days. According to my previous point of view when I was studying, I should answer "books" or small things. But now, decisively, bag! After all, it is really not built to cure all diseases.

A circle of friends saw a beautiful goddess say, just give me love and a bag, which I have at home. When I looked at it at that time, I smiled in my heart, which was funny. But when you think about it, it is even in the same position as love. Doesn't this just show a girl's persistence in bags?

how to understand a girl's obsession with bags? I didn't understand it before, but when I was in college, for a careless and nervous girl, I was actually shocked when I saw my best roommate tidy up the closet and take out more than a dozen bags for a semester. It was funny, right? But now, even if you have a big cupboard full of bags of various styles and colors, I won't blink. However, if all kinds of brands such as Prada and Hermes are collected in one style, then I can't help but admit defeat. After all, people are rich and willful!

In fact, women love bags as an axiom that needs no proof. In their world, bags are a kind of hard currency. Judging from the previous luxury consumption surveys, women account for more than seven floors of the people who pay attention to bags, which is significantly higher than other categories of luxury goods such as wallets, jewelry and watches. For women, finding a bag that suits them is like finding a kind of fate.

from the root, some scholars believe that women's love of bags and shopping can be explained by evolutionary psychology, because women's original division of labor is gathering. Simply put, shopping is like collecting, and the bag is the laundry basket or basket that was used to hold the collected things. The original division of labor of men is hunting, so men who are good at chasing prey like sports, so their spatial positioning ability is better.

it's like men's love for cars. The nature of hunting and primitive division of labor make them have a special liking for cars and speed. Therefore, women love bags and men love cars. The most fundamental reason lies in "ancestors".

Yang Fengchi, a professor at Capital Medical University, once answered the question "Why do women love bags" put forward by a netizen on Weibo: "Women need to keep their body lines light and elegant, and it is not appropriate to put things in their pockets. At the same time, women need a lot of things at any time, so women basically love bags. The meaning of the subconscious may be a symbol of improving the sense of ownership and control. " It has also been said that women who love bags, especially those who love big bags, are hard on the outside and soft on the inside, hoping to give people the feeling of independence, but they often lack independence and are uneasy about everything. They must be in control before they feel at ease. Of course, it is impossible to prove it. Give a look and experience it yourself.

Furthermore, the persistence of bags, especially the persistence of Prada's first-line brand bags, reflects women's pursuit of a comfortable life from a certain aspect. As a member of ordinary white-collar workers, you can buy thousands of bags casually, but you can't just buy tens of thousands or even tens of thousands of bags casually. After all, we are not stars who make tens of millions of dollars in advertising, nor are we all rich second generation and rich third generation, so this also reflects the extreme desire and pursuit of financial freedom. Only the freer the finance, the greater the upper limit of buying bags. On the other hand, you can also roughly estimate the quality of life, financial situation, personal taste and so on for the bag quality commonly used by a woman.

moreover, in and out of the society, based on the society, in addition to the sense of accomplishment, you often need something external to enhance your aura. And the bag is one of them. When a person walks towards you far away, the bag is usually the most eye-catching accessory and the first impression that can be easily captured. In terms of value, compared with clothes and other accessories, buying a bag is the wisest choice, because whether it is a backpack, a satchel or a handbag, it is always in the center of the whole body when used.

Women are born with a stronger sense of exquisite and beautiful things. A bag can usually reveal a person's taste and style in the shortest time: is she a publicity person, a low-key person or a literary person? Is her aesthetics in the same class as mine? Bags can carry and tell too much. .

Imagine that you are standing in the same place with another woman, regardless of her family conditions or her own conditions. However, Hermes and Prada are carried by others, and you just find a Taobao model on the street, and your gas field will wither in an instant, believe it or not. Unless you are strong enough inside and have figured out the lifestyle that suits you best in this life, you don't need to support your aura with these foreign objects. But how many people in their twenties have such a natural aura when you touch your conscience? If it is not influenced by the family environment, it is not enough to be tempered.

not only that, but in a girl's mind, depending on whether you are willing to give a bag and what kind of bag you give, her judgment on you is almost the same as that of the bag you give. After all, social tools are so developed now. When the circle of friends comes to Valentine's Day, Goddess Day and other festivals celebrated by girls all over the country, as soon as your girlfriend opens her circle of friends, someone sent ninety-nine colorful roses and Chanel's latest bag with a male ticket, and someone went to Maldives to celebrate with a female ticket. . . Nine times out of ten, you are drying gifts, and nine times out of ten, the gifts are either lipstick or bags. Your female ticket is definitely not a taste. If at this moment, some ignorant girlfriend blows, and it's over, go back and either quarrel or kneel and rub the washboard.

if you don't understand, then go back and hug your LOL, which is equivalent to girls' obsession with bags.