How to correctly treat your boyfriend or husband when he goes to a nightclub for socializing?

First, look at it objectively and subjectively.

Objective circumstances require the husband to go to nightclubs to socialize, but whether the husband is willing to go, or what he will do if he goes, depends on the husband himself. If you and your husband have a good relationship, you can have an honest conversation with your husband about how you feel about going to the nightclub. Such openness and frankness will allow your husband to tell you his feelings with confidence and help him solve any confusions he has. If you always hold a grudge against him and feel that he should not go to such a place, but he also thinks that I go there to socialize for family and work, then he will feel bored with you.

Second, show understanding.

My husband may go to the nightclub just because of work needs and not because of his personal wishes. The wife should give her husband enough understanding and tolerance, so that it is easier for her husband to tell her actual feelings, and even if there are problems, they can be solved in time. If you always keep a straight face or don't ask questions, your husband will feel that you don't care about him, and he will also feel that you don't understand him enough, and will indulge yourself unscrupulously.

Third, women must have their own lives.

When a woman has her own life, her energy on her husband will be limited, so she will not pay too much attention to his going to nightclubs. In the workplace, socializing is unavoidable. As a family member, you must first maintain trust in your husband and find ways to make yourself better so that you can have enough confidence and resist the temptation of the outside world.

1. Social etiquette.

1. When encountering an occasion where you need to raise a glass, be sure not to be greedy for the drink, keep your mind clear, and do not get carried away by drinking. It is impolite to drink too much wine.

2. Do not drink alcohol before working to avoid smelling alcohol when talking to others. Drinking while off-duty should be done in moderation. Excessive drinking under any circumstances is wrong. Looking tired and drunk at work not only violates work discipline, but is also disorderly. If tourist reception staff go to work drunk, it will seriously damage the service quality and is absolutely unacceptable.

3. During social receptions, participants should not compete with each other for gambling or forcing drinking. Drinking is like fighting, and persuading people to drink is like fighting. This will turn civilized and polite communication into vulgar and rude behavior. This is not allowed. of. It should be a polite invitation to drink. When the host or the guests see someone's glass is empty, they should politely ask: "Two more drinks, please."

If you cover the mouth of the cup with your hand and say you don’t want to drink anymore, you don’t have to force yourself. "Sacrifice one's life to accompany a gentleman" is an act of overconfidence on the part of the drinker but is by no means a polite act. Getting angry when the person tries to persuade him to drink fails is a sign of rudeness and unethical behavior on the part of the person trying to persuade him to drink. It is an inhumane and inexplicable disrespectful behavior to turn against someone after failing to persuade someone to drink. It is generally appropriate to toast or toast once during the banquet, and do not toast repeatedly.

Forcing others will not only fail to achieve the purpose of conveying respect, but will also make the other party feel embarrassed and unhappy. Everyone should clink glasses and drink as much as they want. It is unreasonable to judge sincerity based on how much you drink.

4. Avoid using guessing rules, being noisy, and being rude and unrestrained. Fisting is not allowed in public places, and fisting is generally not advisable at family private receptions. If there are special needs, care should be taken not to disturb the neighbors, and it can only be done without violating the host's wishes and just chatting to add to the fun. But don't use it as a means to force someone to drink. It is very disrespectful to vomit while drunk. Both parties play a vulgar role, which not only hurts the body, makes one look ugly in public, but also blames others. Even if you drink well, if you have no virtue, no talent, and no manners, you are nothing more than a bucket of wine and a meal bag.

5. Avoid being immoral and losing control of your words and actions after drinking. Alcohol can anesthetize people's nerves, make people think disorderly, make some nerves excited, and make speech and behavior out of control. If you go crazy under the influence of alcohol, talk nonsense, say things that are difficult to say at ordinary times, and do some ugly things, you will often regret them. The position of clinking glasses is also particular. Generally, if you are toasting to a senior, your glasses should be slightly lower to show humility. If the other party deliberately requests it, you can have a flat head, but it must not be higher than the other party's cup.

6. Regarding seats, in high-end hotels, napkins with different shapes stacked in wine glasses will be used to distinguish the priority. The flower shape of the main seat is usually higher, and there is only one, except for the main seat. The shape of the napkin is the same; if it is in different hotels, people generally regard the seat facing south as the main seat, and the others as secondary. However, because modern people’s sense of direction is not very good, the seat facing the door of the private room is generally regarded as the main seat. It is designated as the primary position (because the door usually opens towards the south), and the others are secondary.

7. The toaster must do the toasting first, which can show your sincerity and generosity. Chinese people like to discuss business at the dinner table, so a person’s drinking capacity and drinking ethics will also become your business partner. As a reference indicator, people generally think that a forthright person has a more upright temperament, has no tricks, and is a more trustworthy person.