How can parents change their children's habit of dragging ink on homework?

As the saying goes, "Mothers who don't do homework are kind and filial, and when they do homework, they jump like chickens and dogs", which proves that it is extremely unwise to supervise children's homework. It takes a long time to finish a simple homework, so many parents think that overtime is more tiring than staying up late.

A colleague feels this way. His children are particularly procrastinating in doing their homework. He supervises the children's homework after work every day. He drinks less than 20 minutes every time he writes, otherwise he will do something else to divert his attention. Colleagues often complain that he owed his children in his last life. Otherwise, how could this happen? "Because the child is only in the first grade now, there is still a long time to go! If this happens in the next few years, it will kill my colleague, but now, there are not many children like my colleague's family, and many parents are very angry about it. I don't know why children are always so procrastinating in doing their homework.

In fact, children's procrastination in homework is not caused by some reasons. Because children's personalities are different and the educational environment of each family is different, there are many reasons for children's procrastination in homework:

Children are not interested in learning.

Some children procrastinate because they are completely uninterested in their studies. I'm sure everyone has this experience. When they were at school, they were not interested in a certain subject, so it was difficult to learn it. Over time, I lost interest in this subject or learning, and I couldn't remember the knowledge points. Children naturally do their homework slowly.

2. The child's attention is not concentrated

"Researchers at Harvard University in the United States made a survey of children under the eighth grade and found that 34.7% of children had learning problems because it was difficult to concentrate."

This is also the reason why many children always dawdle for a long time when doing their homework. They may just pull their attention back to their homework and be attracted to other things after a few minutes. Usually, such children are generally young, and their concentration has not been fully cultivated. It will be more difficult for things that require long-term concentration.

3. Did not develop good habits

For this, parents should take the initiative to help their children complete it together. For example, communicate with children and ask, "Why do children have to do homework until ten o'clock? Son, do you want to finish your homework early? Finish your homework early, and you can do what you want, such as drawing, exercising, reading and watching TV for a while. " Children will definitely say "think about it", "If mom and dad can finish your homework quickly, then you will have a lot of time to do what you want, instead of doing your homework until ten o'clock every day".

Professor Li Meijin, a professor at People's Public Security University of China and a graduate tutor, once gave such an ingenious plan, which is particularly important for the primary school students who just entered the school 1-2.

1. Establish good study habits.

When children are in a daze while doing homework, parents should establish a good study habit for their children from an early age, that is, in the first grade. If there are conditions at home, make the room where children do their homework as simple as possible. No toys. There is nothing on the table for the children to do their homework except the necessary paper, pen and eraser.

2. The homework is divided into three parts.

The first-grade children go home and ask them what homework they have. Then according to the difficulty of children's content, it is divided into three stages, first simple, then difficult, and finally simple. You tell your child to write quickly, and it will be finished in 20 minutes. If you finish it within the specified time, you can come out to play for 20 minutes. If it is not finished, it is necessary to reduce the playing time.

3. Plan the operation time

Plan for the children. The sooner you finish the game, the more time you will have. The slower you play, the less time you have. The more mistakes you make in your homework, the less time you play. In this way, children can form good habits in primary school, and when they have experience, they can plan for themselves when they grow up in junior high school or high school. Do the simple first, then the difficult, and finally the simple, so that he feels that he will finish it soon and put the difficult in the middle. This is a better way to solve the problem.

Educating children is no longer a simple beating and cursing. Some parents get angry when they see their children fooling around. Coupled with the unsatisfactory work, children are likely to become "cannon fodder" under their parents' mouths. How naive is the child?

While educating children, we should also do our own emotional management.