Brothers who have been arguing for many years always feel that whatever I say or do is wrong. For example, if a brother does something wrong, let me tell you, there are always many people who help me.

It’s hard to answer your question. Because the phenomena you mentioned and the things you said are very abstract, they can be understood in many ways. For example, if a brother you mentioned is wrong and you say it, many people will criticize you for him... You don't say anything specific, which makes it easy for people to understand that he is indeed wrong, but he is very popular. , there will be many people who will stand in his position and help him; it can also be understood as saying that the brother is right, but it is your mistake in understanding that he is wrong. But the reality is that you are wrong. Others are speaking for justice by helping him. Another possibility is that what you said (others like to isolate you and help other brothers) is because you misunderstood and used inappropriate words, thus distorting the facts and hurting the brother who was not wrong. causing public outrage.

There are many things you said that gave me multiple interpretations. I don’t know what kind of situation you are talking about? So, what advice should I give you? Just think about it carefully. If you are wrong, correct it. If you are right, argue with reason and persist. However, this requires more effort, trying to understand and accept the correct things of others, and tolerate and forgive the harmless shortcomings and mistakes of others.

This should give you peace of mind and help you grow.