Mom has a strong personality. What should I do?

As an experienced person, I think you really have to stick to your point of view sometimes, and don't let your mother control your life, otherwise you will not only regret it later, but also have some contradictions with your mother.

I'm with me now, that's all. She was really strong before, and everything I did was basically her orders or unreasonable. Of course, I must have a big problem myself, because I feel insecure. Maybe I didn't stay with my parents when I was a child, so every time she threatened to break up with me, I didn't dare to listen, so I hear it now.

Now we are in the stage of complaining to each other. I said she planned my life in a way I didn't like. She said that my position was not firm enough and I really couldn't go on.

I have to face a strong mother. You really have to be strong. After all, this is your life. You can't always let others lead you by the nose. You don't have to worry anyway. No matter how strong your mother is, she is also your mother. She won't really break up with you because of this kind of thing, and sometimes she will be willful. But you should also think about what your mother said, have your own opinions and make a rational decision, that is, you should think about whether you will regret it in the future.

Of course, you can communicate with your mother first. If we can reach an agreement, there is no need to use other ways that will cause quarrels. Grasp your own bottom line, not to say that you can't listen to your mother's words, but sometimes it will be difficult for you to go on alone after listening to your mother's words becomes a habit. If your mother suddenly lets go and lets you go by yourself, I think you will feel helpless as I do.