"Daughter-in-law, why do you eat these dishes every day?" "Some of them are good." what do you think?

Guide: How many daughters-in-law don't want to go back to their in-laws? Because many opinions of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inconsistent. Therefore, for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the Chinese New Year is really a bit like a day!

"Son, your daughter-in-law package jiaozi every day. Can you eat? " "It would be nice to have something to eat."

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It is said that the Chinese New Year is a reunion, so many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are not very close at ordinary times will bear it more or less during the Chinese New Year.

Why do you say "forbearance"?

Because mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not easy to get along with, it is really contradictory to have a carefree sister-in-law at home.

My friend A Min recently shared an event in the WeChat group, which happened during the Spring Festival a few days ago.

At that time, she and her husband went back to their parents-in-law's house, but because of some trivial contradictions, they fell out with their mother-in-law's house, including their sister-in-law.

Fortunately, she was not alone when she was in the worst situation, and her husband stood by her all the time.

"Son, your daughter-in-law package jiaozi every day. Can you eat? " "It would be nice to have something to eat."

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Tell me more about A Min's mother-in-law.

A Min's husband's family is about 2 hours' drive from his small family, which is a neighboring city. A Min doesn't usually deal with her mother-in-law. Because A Min knows that her mother-in-law has a strong personality, she sometimes likes to put on an act in front of her husband A Min.

For example, A Min's mother-in-law often says in front of her son, "Oh, my back hurts recently and I can't walk."

The son panicked and said that he hoped she would go to the hospital. My mother-in-law insisted on not going and said, "I don't know how to get to the hospital alone, and it's nothing serious." When people are old, there will be more things. "

But my mother-in-law calls her son every day to say that she has a backache. Finally, A Min's husband asked for leave to take his mother to the hospital. I already checked. The doctor said it was a little lumbar muscle strain, which is a common disease of the elderly. It's okay. Pay attention to rest.

A Min's mother-in-law added: "Hey, people get bored when they are old." A Min's husband immediately said no.

Afterwards, A Min felt very strange. Why didn't her mother-in-law let her sister-in-law in the same city take her to see a doctor and ask her husband for leave before going to the hospital?

This Spring Festival, A Min suddenly understood the reason.

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A few days before the Chinese New Year this year, there were reports about pneumonia, but A Min's mother-in-law insisted that A Min and his wife go back to her mother-in-law's house for the Chinese New Year.

After A Min followed her husband back to her mother-in-law's house, her mother-in-law complained about her backache in front of her husband, and no one helped her cook and do housework.

A Min's husband said, "Mom, you have worked so hard, so I will come." But her mother-in-law didn't agree, so she kept looking at A Min. A Min understood that her mother-in-law wanted her daughter-in-law to serve a large family alone, but she didn't say anything.

That evening, A Min asked her husband to drive to the county supermarket, which is an hour away, and bought a lot of quick-frozen dumplings, quick-frozen dumplings and quick-frozen noodles. Besides, she also bought some instant noodles and hot pot ingredients.

From the next day, A Min took over the catering work of her parents-in-law, fourth sister-in-law, third sister-in-law and A Min 1 1.

However, in fact, A Min doesn't have any cooking skills and can't cook, which was known by her mother-in-law and her husband when they first got married. So this time, her mother-in-law asked her to bear the three meals at home, which made A Min understand that her mother-in-law was probably trying to fool her and embarrass her.

Because I can't cook, I went to the supermarket to buy a lot of quick-frozen dumplings, quick-frozen dumplings and quick-frozen noodles, including some instant noodles and hot pot ingredients.

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A Min is responsible for the meals of a large family. He cooks a pot of jiaozi in the morning, a pot of hot pot at noon and a pot of jiaozi at night.

However, what A Min didn't expect was that every time after dinner, there was 1 1 person at home, but no one helped to wash the dishes. A Min's husband wants to wash the dishes, and her mother-in-law always pulls him away for various reasons. The attitude is obvious. She wants a minute to wash the dishes by herself.

A Min thought it was funny, so he stopped washing it. In the evening, he went to the supermarket and bought many disposable chopsticks.

During the day, my mother-in-law said nothing. Sister-in-law and sister-in-law came home at night, and her mother-in-law said, "A Min, it's not her mother-in-law who said you. We entertain guests today. Your sister and younger sister are our guests. Why do you eat frozen food all day? "

Early the next morning, the eldest sister-in-law and sister-in-law returned to their parents' home, and A Min handed a bowl of instant noodles directly to everyone. At noon, A Min continued to make hot pot, and everyone gave out disposable chopsticks.

Sister-in-law said, "Sister-in-law, do you cook like this? What does my child eat like this? A bowl of instant noodles in the morning, the children can't finish it! "

The elder sister-in-law also said, "Also, what do you mean by disposable chopsticks? Are there no chopsticks at home? "

A Min said unhurriedly, "There are chopsticks. It's all on the stove. Nobody washed it. My hand is cracked and I can't wash it. When cooking, I can make hot pot and show my best housekeeping skills. You are not satisfied. "

Then her mother-in-law said, "A Min, this is outrageous. Your sister and younger sister are both guests in this family. Yesterday, you were not allowed to use frozen food. Today, you made instant noodles. Isn't this intentional? Son, your wife packs jiaozi and steamed bread every day. Can you eat? "

A Min's husband couldn't bear it any longer. He said loudly to his mother, sister and younger sister, "Come on! Some eat well, and whoever doesn't want to eat will cook it himself. "

A Min's mother-in-law saw that her son was not on the same side as herself, so she immediately turned over and told A Min to get out. A Min left without hesitation, and A Min's husband followed A Min.

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Mother-in-law A Min thinks that her son doesn't listen to her after marriage, and her daughter-in-law treats herself like air, which makes her unhappy. She just wants her daughter-in-law to cook for the New Year, exposing her shortcomings and humiliating herself. But never imagined that my son didn't care and went with his wife.

It is said that a few days later, her mother-in-law called A Min's husband again and said that he had a backache. A Min's husband knew his mother's physical condition and said, "Mom, you have to endure the backache. It's not safe to go to the hospital in an emergency. If you can't, let your sister or elder sister take you to the hospital. It is too risky for me to go out. "

Actually, A Min's mother-in-law is not a bad person. She just wants to hug this disobedient daughter-in-law.

A Min is the only child born in 1990s. She didn't do much housework since she was a child. When she got married, she usually ate in the canteen or made soup. You'd better buy some hot pot ingredients, A Min's husband knows.

Although A Min is not good at cooking, she is good at cooking in work and family planning.

When they got married, both of them were penniless, but after two years of marriage, under the leadership of A Min, they had saved the down payment and began to plan to buy a house for the New Year.

A Min's husband knows that his wife is not perfect, but he values A Min's wholehearted, snobbish and sincere work. Compared with the atmosphere in A Min, ignoring bride price, wedding and so on, my own mother is a little chicken.

Although this year is a bit frustrating, I feel relaxed for a minute. Because A Min thinks her husband is still awake, she still has hope. What can she do with a stupid husband?

In fact, many mother-in-law can put down their obsession, that is, "mother-in-law must discipline her daughter-in-law."

Let go of your obsession, treat your son and daughter-in-law well, have a harmonious family, and let her go home and cook a decent meal next year.