How to treat the divorce tide in today's society?

Ending a dead marriage by divorce is a sign of social progress. It is also a sign of civilization to solve the divorce problem through legal means with a rational attitude. However, just as marriage is not a child's play, divorce is a matter that needs special caution.

There will always be some setbacks and crises in a long-term marriage, and there will be periodic "disgust periods" between any husband and wife. There is no need to make a decision in a hurry when the contradiction is fierce. You can let go, calm down, reflect, and maybe make up after a while. Even if you have to divorce in the end, it will make both sides less hurt if you handle it calmly.

In particular, don't take divorce as a means to get rid of contradictions and troubles. If you don't learn from the failed marriage and still hold naive ideas about marriage and family, you may be afraid of marriage in the future or from now on, and you may fall into failed marriages again and again. Instead of this, it is better to spend more energy to maintain the first marriage.