Let's talk about it Should women save money behind their husbands' backs?

No, you chose to get married, which means there should be no secrets between you and no reservations between husband and wife. I think private money means not trusting my husband. If you need money, why don't you just tell your husband? Maybe, maybe one day, your private money will be of great help to you, but what can it do? I would rather my husband and I support each other in a difficult situation than take out our own private money to save my husband from fire and water, because your private money is no longer private money, but the gap between you and your husband.