Children take a car to co-shoot videos and have a chat.

It is not easy to be a mother, and it is even more difficult to be a mother of two children. If it's okay to take the children home, it's really a headache once it's taken out.

The annual Spring Festival travel rush craze is coming again. I don't know how many precious mothers have to take their children back to their hometown alone and experience a long journey!

Every year, some photos of mothers with their children at railway stations and high-speed trains are exposed, which makes us deeply moved. It turns out that maternal love is not just talk, but the details of bringing a baby.

I have seen such a photo that became popular on the Internet: Ma Bao held a little boy tightly in his right hand, and the 2-year-old boy slept soundly in his mother's arms.

On the other end of the phone, Ma Bao held a girl's hand tightly. The girl is estimated to be 7-8 years old, wearing a ponytail like the girl next door, sleeping softly in her seat, motionless.

The precious mother may be exhausted from the long journey. She closed her eyes and fell asleep deeply.

However, the sleeping mother still clung to her two children, which deeply moved us. This is a mother who is still protecting her child after falling asleep, for fear of losing her child.

Motherly love is really not just talk, but an instinctive greatness.

It is said that parents' love for their children is true and deep, so what other details in life contain parents' deep love and can protect their children's life?

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Parents' beloved son will "cruelly" force the child to move forward.

Jackson Yee was born in an ordinary family, and his parents' education was not high, but the mother who graduated from technical secondary school paid special attention to her son's education.

In order to provide an excellent environment for children to grow up, Jackson Yee's mother took her children to study in big cities, reducing all expenses at home and investing all her money in children's art training.

Of course, the mother's idea is simple: even if the child can't be an all-rounder, he should rely on his own dance skills to become a teacher instead of working in a factory.

Therefore, Qian Xi began to learn all kinds of dances when he was five years old. They transfer to different interest classes every day and get off at home at ten in the evening.

Qian Ceng painfully asked his mother, "Do you not love me anymore, so you won't let me play like other children?"

But who knows, a mother's deep love is not in words. She has spent thousands of days and nights with her children, silently "forcing" them to move forward, whether it is wind and sun, or cold winter and hot summer.

She tries hard to be a "cruel" mother, and only hopes that her son will work harder when he was a child and live more easily on his own when he grows up.

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Parents' beloved son will make the child "face mistakes and take responsibility"

Roosevelt was very wise in educating children to "admit their mistakes".

Once, his 6-year-old son James and two nephews were playing together at home. My son was so excited that he broke the model plane at home. Luo Qifu specifically asked, "Who broke the model plane?"

The two little nephews said firmly, "I didn't break it!" " "

James echoed, "It's not me either!"

Roosevelt said nothing. After his nephew left, he deliberately ignored him and didn't talk to his son again. Instead, he hinted to his children through his wife that if he did something wrong and refused to take responsibility, his parents would not trust him.

The next day, the calm son took the initiative to find Roosevelt and sincerely asked for forgiveness. Father said happily, "I have been waiting for you." Facing mistakes and taking responsibility bravely is a very important quality. Dad is proud of you! "

Therefore, if parents really love their children, then don't help them escape their responsibilities.

Stay with your children and let them know that mistakes are not terrible, but you can't face them and take responsibility.

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Parents' beloved son will listen attentively to the child and keep silent.

Carnegie, a famous master of communication, once attended an important banquet.

During this period, a famous botanist told Carnegie about his experiences and discoveries with great enthusiasm. Carnegie basically didn't say a few words, just listened attentively.

After the banquet, the botanist praised Carnegie to his host: "He is an excellent communicator, and I admire him very much."

Sometimes, listening is more effective than preaching!

In the life of raising children, parents who really love and treat their children well often listen to their inner thoughts with great care and rarely preach. In this way, children may feel a lot of love.

Parents' love for their children is deep and enthusiastic, but this kind of love needs more wisdom and action to really help children grow up.