6. 1 Enlightenment to children "Clip a chopstick and release filial piety"

Children eat with their parents and grandparents. Many parents often give their children the first chopsticks and say, "Baby, eat quickly! My mother made this specially for you. " Grandparents don't show weakness, and give their grandchildren a dish in the bowl: "This dish is nutritious, so the baby should eat more." Is this scene familiar?

Is this kind of family dinner common?

The first bite of food is not necessarily more nutritious, but it makes children learn to be selfish and think that they are the most important person in the family. So when eating, the parents haven't sat down at the table, and the children have already rushed to eat more than half of their favorite dishes. Parents are setting an example for their children in every word and deed. Every detail in family life is not small.

Cultivating children's excellent character of respecting the elderly requires parents to consciously set an example for their children. How parents treat their parents, children learn how to treat their parents under the influence of their parents' words and deeds. Children who grow up in a family atmosphere where their mothers are kind and their sons are filial will also know how to respect the elderly, know how to be grateful, know how to be filial and know how to behave.

Children's respect and etiquette for their elders is the epitome of parents' attitude towards their elders. The process of teaching children manners and respecting their elders is also a journey of parents' own understanding and promotion. People who are willing to respect their elders from the bottom of their hearts know how to give and how to be grateful. Such a caring child will have a good life, and the door of the world is willing to open for him. You and I are just in the long river of life.

Parents' behavior is a mirror in the process of children's growth and plays a subtle role in children's growth. Parents should sincerely respect the elderly around them and really set a good example for their children. Parents' words and deeds, children see in their eyes and remember in their hearts, and they will treat the elderly like their parents in their own actions.

Parents should start with small things in daily life, such as letting their children give the elderly the first bite and chatting with them. Parents will lead by example, deeply influence their children, let them feel the happiness brought by respecting the elderly, thus changing their own ideas and starting to be filial to and love the elderly.

Some of them passed down from generation to generation, passed through childhood and adolescence, and finally put their position right. Looking back, they really accepted their parents' nagging, produced deep respect and became soft and warm.