My sister-in-law wants to have a second child at the age of 35, and suggested that I take care of the child. What should I do?

Of course I refused. Why? No matter how old she is, it is his own will to have a second child. No one forced her with a knife holder around her neck. Why should anyone else take care of their children?

What's more, she even hinted that what kind of mentality this is and how bad your position in the family is, she should have such an idea and be able to make such unreasonable demands.

It's not like I'm too old to move and need someone to take care of me. Since you want children, you should be responsible for yourself.

Although the child born to your sister-in-law is related to you, it is not your own after all. You will have your own children one day, so you don't have to bear this responsibility and have no obligation to do such a thing. So, whether she implies or explicitly asks, you must refuse.

Don't feel embarrassed just because you are your sister-in-law. If you compromise this time, there will be another time. Nowadays, people who are sisters-in-law push their noses and face. If you give her a little affection, she will think you are a bully.

So when this happens, you must refuse, leaving no room.