For four years.

There is a kind of meeting, called meeting each other late; There is a kind of fate, called fate.

There is a kind of true love, called missing every day; There is a kind of helplessness that can't be put down.

On the road of love, it is not smooth sailing. People who love each other deeply are doomed to part. It's not that fate is not good enough, but that reality is too cruel. It's no use cherishing it desperately.

If this life is destined to be together, let it go, even if you miss it every day, you are just torturing yourself and can't let love start again.

What if I can't let go of one person? It may be very helpful to see what people who have experienced it say.

1, "I can't let go of a person, not because I can't let go, but because I'm unwilling."

I have paid so much for love, but there is still no result. Affection is always hurt mercilessly. In the world of love, whoever pays more is more painful after breaking up.

When you love someone without reservation, you expect love to turn into marriage, and you will be together for life, leaving no way out. When love can't blossom and bear fruit smoothly, it's because our hearts can't accept it, or we are expecting love to continue and miracles will appear.

2. "I can't let go because time is too short, and it won't matter in a few years."

If you fall in love with someone and then lose it, let time take away the memory and blur the picture of love, so you won't care so much.

Many years later, you will still recall the past love, but at that time, the memory is vague and you can laugh it off. Or, you have new people around you and feel that the past is a memory and nothing.

3. "Since we can't be together in this life, we have loved, cried and hurt, even if we can't bear to part, we still have to let go."

The person who loves you is gone, the person you love is gone, and you are still entangled in the past. What's the point? Life always looks forward, even if you can't bear it, let go. This is not for you to decide.

Everyone can't help it sometimes, because love is not decided by one person, and the reality is cruel. It is not because of your love that you become what you want. People should learn to turn and adapt.

4. "He has let go. It's silly of you not to let go. "

Yes, the other party has put it down, put it down, and you are still struggling. It's stupid of you to miss it every day.

People who can let go prove that it is not true love. He has moved on, and your idea is meaningless. Don't love someone who doesn't care about you anymore.

People who really love each other will definitely leave each other alone. If we are separated, it is not that the fate is not good enough, but that we are not deeply in love.

5. "I can't let it go and forget it, because I haven't met anyone more worthy of love."

Instead of always recalling the past, it is better to add some new memories. Take the initiative to accept new love or do something else.

When you meet someone you love more, someone you want to be with all your life, look back and see how stupid you used to be. The same is true of "the old don't go, the new don't come".

Love a person, no one can guarantee that there will be results. On the road of love, ups and downs are normal. Always learn to follow the fate and love naturally.

In a word, it's yours, and you can't leave. It's not yours. You wouldn't come if you asked. Don't ruin all the happiness in the future because of a few decades of past events.

Life is a process. The person who accompanies you is actually a passer-by You really don't need to miss a passerby every day.