How to speak politely

How to speak politely? Are there any inappropriate behaviors when we talk at ordinary times? Below I have compiled several articles about speaking manners for your reference!

How to speak politely

1, slightly lower.

Speak in a low voice

Except in the open and noisy outdoor.

2. Speak a little slower

Speak too fast, first, others can't understand; Then it sounds like a quarrel; Third, speaking fast affects your thinking.

The advantage of speaking slowly is that it sounds magnetic and deep.

Don't grab words, wait patiently for others to finish.

It is disrespectful for you to interrupt others suddenly when they are talking.

The correct way is to supplement when others are talking? What happened next? What happened next? ,? so this is it？ Wait, let others think that you are listening to him carefully. What he said is very interesting.

No matter how unreasonable what others say, no matter how harsh your point of view is, no matter how incisive your point of view is, listen patiently.

First, politeness; Second, you won't know whether others are reasonable or not until you hear them.

Third, others may just say some harsh words to get angry with you, and they are just fooled.

Fourth, you think your point of view is brilliant, but others will disagree.

Don't say anything in a hurry when discussing in the meeting.

If you speak later, you have heard everyone's opinions.

If you have to speak first, learn to throw a brick to attract jade.

Don't tell me what to do.

Speaking with gestures is different from pointing when speaking. Pointing is the most uneducated.

But in order to prevent doing anything, you'd better not gesture.

7. Don't worry.

When you hear other people's opinions different from your own, or criticize yourself, you can't show impatience immediately, as if you are angry with others. This is the most despised thing by others.

Others accuse you of several things. First, you misunderstood. People didn't mean to accuse you. If you are angry with others, won't you wronged them? Second, people made an unintentional mistake and you were angry with them.

It seems that you are narrow-minded; Third, people deliberately provoke you. If you are angry with others, you are just cheated by others.

So no matter what, don't be anxious.

8. Don't look around.

When you listen to others or talk to them, you must look them in the eye. It is impolite to look around, and it is also a taboo to speak.

You may really hate the speaker, or his words are like chewing wax, or you are absent-minded If you have to listen to him, don't look around. If you really don't want to listen to him, just tell him I'm sorry, and don't look around anyway.

9. if you think about it, don't say it.

As long as you think before you speak, you will not take the oral English test, and you will have no problem grabbing words, speaking loudly and gesturing.

Several people discuss the problem together. If you say this, you may feel that if you don't say it, it won't be your turn, especially since you have made up your mind and you think your words are particularly important. If you don't say it, it will bring trouble to solve the problem.

It doesn't matter. They always stop. If someone else says it for you, you don't have to say it

If you don't talk, others won't look down on you. If you say it late, others will only value you more.

There is an old saying? Are you late? That's the truth.

10, don't feel inferior.

No matter who the other person is, you can respect him, but there is no need to feel inferior.

Maybe you want something from him, maybe everyone says you are not as good as him, and it doesn't matter. He is inferior to you.

As long as you don't feel inferior when you speak, you will get rid of the idea of inferiority. Speaking neither supercilious nor supercilious is the essence of extraordinary speech.

1 1, don't tell lies.

Lying in good faith is not a big mistake, but the best way is not to lie. The advantage is that you can be confident and confident.

Even if I did something wrong, what does it matter if I admit it frankly? If it really doesn't work, I'll tell you a way not to lie: shut up and don't talk.

Or in the case of Wang Gu, he.

12, don't deliberately express yourself.

Everyone wants to get ahead, but don't express yourself by talking, so others will misunderstand that you are showing off. Why bother?

13, don't swear.

You can't swear to prove your innocence or show that you are telling the truth. This is the most uneducated.

Say what you want to say.

? Believe it or not? .

14, don't be afraid of ice.

No one else is talking, and you don't know what to say. Don't be afraid of silence.

Calm down for a while, it's no big deal.

If you speak rashly, it may be difficult to take it back.

Talk too much and lose too much!

How to speak politely 2

First, use honorific, modest and elegant language.

(a) honorific: honorific, also known as? Salute? , it and? Modesty? Relatives is a word to show respect and courtesy.

Besides politeness, we can use honorifics more, which can also reflect a person's cultural accomplishment.

1, where honorifics are used.

First, more formal social occasions.

Second, talk to a teacher or someone with higher status.

Third, dealing with people for the first time or meeting unfamiliar people.

Fourth, formal occasions such as meetings and negotiations.

2. Common honorifics: What do we use everyday? Please. Word, the second person said? What about you? Words and pronouns? Your Excellency? 、? Your wife? 、? Your side? Wait, there are some common words.

Like meeting for the first time? I've heard a lot? Long time no see? Long time no see? Please criticize? Consult? Please forgive me? Forgive? , trouble others to say? Excuse me. , the party said? Please. , praise people's opinions? High evaluation? Wait a minute.

(2) Modesty: Modesty is also called? Modesty? Is it the same? Honorific words? Relative is a word that expresses humility and self-humility.

The most common usage of modesty is to address yourself and your loved ones modestly in front of others.

Like calling yourself? Stupid? 、? Family precepts, kindness, brother and sister? Wait a minute.

Modesty and respect for others are inseparable unity.

Although modest language is not widely used in daily life, its spirit is everywhere.

As long as you show your modesty and sincerity in your daily language, people will naturally respect you.

(3) Elegant language: Elegant language refers to some elegant words.

In some formal occasions and in the presence of elders and ladies, elegant language is often used instead of casual or even vulgar words.

Using more elegant language can reflect one's cultural accomplishment and respect others' personal qualities.

In dealing with people, if you are entertaining guests, you should say:? Tea, please. .

If snacks are also provided, can I use them? Please have some snacks.

? If you finish your meal before others, you should say hello to others. Please enjoy yourself.

? The use of elegant language is not mechanical and fixed.

As long as you behave politely, people will be deeply impressed by your personal accomplishment.

As long as everyone pays attention to the use of elegant language, it will certainly be of great benefit to the formation of a civilized and noble social atmosphere and help improve the overall national quality of our country.

Second, deal with daily situations.

(1) Keep a proper distance from people: Speaking is usually for communicating with people. To achieve this goal, of course, we should first pay attention to the content of the speech, and then pay attention to the severity of the voice when speaking, so that the interlocutors can understand it.

In this way, you must keep your distance from the interlocutor when you speak.

Keeping a proper distance from others when speaking is not entirely due to the consideration of whether the other person can hear himself clearly. In addition, there is a question of how to be more polite.

Politely speaking, speaking too far away from the other person will make the other person mistakenly think that you don't want to be friendly with him, which is obviously impolite.

But if you talk to people at close range, a little carelessness will splash foam on others' faces, which is the most annoying.

Some people, because they have the habit of talking close to others, know that others' scruples are splashed by their own mouth foam, so they cover their mouths with their hands first.

Is this the same? Whispering? Ugly and not generous enough

Therefore, from the point of etiquette, it is generally most appropriate for one or two people to keep their distance.

Doing so can not only make the other person feel a kind atmosphere, but also maintain a certain degree? Social distance? Among the subjective feelings of ordinary people, this is also the most comfortable.

(2) Address others appropriately: whether old friends or new friends, address each other as soon as they meet.

Everyone wants to be respected by others, and people value their position.

Calling a person with a title his title is a great respect for him.

Names only apply to people who are closely related.

If you have a special relationship with people with titles, it will be more cordial to call them by their first names, but it will be more appropriate for you to call them by their first names in public and social occasions.

For intellectuals, they can be directly called by their professional titles.

But for degrees, except for doctors, other degrees can't be used as titles.

(3) Good at verbal communication: both celebrities and ordinary people, as the two sides of the conversation, should be equal.

Generally speaking, we choose topics of common interest. However, some issues that should not be touched, such as the other person's age, income, the value of personal belongings, marital status and religious beliefs, are best not mentioned.

It is impolite and uncultured to inquire about these things.

How to speak politely 3

When discussing education issues, people often mention the shortcomings of the previous generation, such as the authoritarianism of listening but not talking, or the harsh words used by parents when talking to their children.

However, when the parenting style is over-revised, on the one hand, parents promote inexperienced children to the inappropriate interpersonal position (for example, they should ask their children for advice before doing anything), on the other hand, they lower their standards of demonstrating for their children to the same level as them.

In this era of international failure and outspoken, we seldom look back on the lack of speech teaching.

In Taiwan Province Province, parents pay more and more attention to "language education". Children have been learning a second foreign language for a long time, but families who want to learn more languages do not necessarily attach importance to their children's daily speech education.

On the other hand, children come into contact with the complex outside world earlier than in the past, and the quality of speech in the big environment declines. Even the communication system that paid the most attention to quality in the past no longer bears professional responsibility for its own speech. Children listen to school for several years.

With the change of language, they even think that rudeness can prove their closeness, humor or vitriol can attract attention, and vulgarity becomes an expression that wins recognition.

Although the external environment was an influence at that time, the family was the last place to check, but now many parents think that "home" should be a place for children to relax, and to be polite is a stranger, so they have given their children two sets of standards for treating people since childhood.

Once I worked with a pair of parents. Children are polite when they turn right, and rude when they turn left. This difference in attitude and rhetoric makes people see the problem more clearly.

I said a word to my child, and he soon understood that teaching is not laborious.

I said, Kevin, if you can't tell Aunt Boo Boo, you can't tell Mom.

As long as the second child knows that his mother and I treat him the same, and that we are "elders", he must communicate with us with the same courtesy.

Failure to correct and remind in time will lead to embarrassing evaluation in the future.

I once saw a child who lost his language ability. He grew up in pain.

When the little girl was rude when she was a child, her parents always told others that she was "cute, straightforward, unpretentious" and "naive, and she could say whatever she wanted". When I was growing up, I didn't cultivate my way and volume of speaking. After I left society, my friends around me were even more afraid to remind me.

Now, her parents often say regretfully and apologetically in front of others: My daughter is so rude, but she is actually just a silly elder sister with a kind heart.

Once, her father was in a bad mood, and when he heard his daughter's rude words, he scolded the child in front of everyone, which embarrassed all his friends.

Parents must think deeply. Some teaching was not strictly carried out in childhood, but it would be embarrassing to teach at an age when you should have common sense. This is what parents should consider for their children.

Even if some embarrassed parents are unwilling to give it from beginning to end, others may not think so much about their children. At this time, what he received was not "correction" but "evaluation", which was a serious injury.

On the other hand, isn't it more pleasant to let children face life with the same courtesy from an early age without having to adjust their attitude because of people's environment?

Why should polite speech be regarded as a burden against human preferences? I've only heard others speak inappropriately or flatter, which is insincere and unpleasant, and I've never heard anything nice and annoying.