A gentleman gets along with a villain

A gentleman gets along with a villain

A gentleman gets along with a villain. In this world, there are all kinds of people. "Villains" are those who do not follow the right path and use evil means to achieve their goals. It is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. Let’s take a look at the relationship between a gentleman and a villain. How a gentleman gets along with a villain 1

1. Don’t offend the villain.

Never make a public disclosure alone out of a sense of justice.

Villains never think that they are treacherous or unkind. They are highly sensitive, their eyes are as sharp as an eagle, and their tongue is as sharp as a sword. You are definitely no match for them.

2. Keep a respectful distance from them.

Keep the relationship superficial and never be as close as a friend.

Because the villain is so sweet and ruthless, you will be caught off guard and walk around without finishing the meal.

3. Speak cautiously and just make polite greetings.

If you criticize or talk about other people’s private matters, it will definitely become a leverage for them to cause trouble, or be used as a bargaining chip to retaliate against you in the future;

If they criticize or talk about other people’s private matters, you must Stop immediately and don't listen to a word, because no matter what, they will definitely blame you.

Especially when they call to chat and chat, they often record it for you. This is the mentality of a villain.

4. Don’t have any interests involved.

They are good at socializing and forming small circles, which looks very lively and has many benefits.

But you must not rely on them to obtain benefits, because they will definitely ask for double the return, and you will definitely lose more because of the small, and the gain will not be worth the loss.

5. It’s okay to take some small losses.

Because not only is it difficult for you to seek justice, but it also creates greater hatred; they are narrow-minded and cruel, and they will fight you endlessly, which makes you even more tired.

The ancients said: endure the calm for a while; take a step back and the sea and the sky will be brighter.

You should take it as a practice lesson so that you can grow and win more respect. A Gentleman Gets Along with a Villain 2

How to identify a villain

There is no bottom line, challenge the lower limit of morality

The "high-speed rail accountant" who was once criticized on the Internet Virgo man" has received higher education, but he has read the books of sages in vain. Knowing clearly that the seat does not belong to him, he still forcibly occupied the seat, disregarding human rights and legal principles, and even confidently cursed and personally attacked the real seat owner; in the face of public criticism, he felt at ease and had no regrets.

This is typical villain behavior.

Villains have a common selfish nature, that is, there is no bottom line in doing things, and they only benefit themselves at the expense of others. In order to achieve their goals, friendships can be sacrificed, morals can be trampled, and all means are used; they don't care about the eyes of the world, and there is no right and wrong in their hearts.

The moral bottom line is the most basic quality of being a human being. Only when people have a bottom line can they have requirements for themselves, do things in a principled and measured manner, take their image into consideration, and live in harmony with others. People who have no bottom line have extremely dark hearts. Working and living with them is extremely dangerous.

As a human being, you must stay away from people who have no bottom line. The following people are people who have no bottom line, and you must keep your distance:

1. No conscience. Just asking without knowing anything in return. Having only one's own interests in mind and not remembering the goodness of others is an ungrateful white-eyed wolf.

2. Do things by any means necessary. You can betray everyone for the sake of profit, and even your personality is deformed. You cannot get respect from others, and you will not respect others.

3. Get to Long and look at Shu. He is selfish, loves money as much as his life, and is greedy. As long as there is a profit, he will push forward step by step and make further progress.

In life, you must abide by the bottom line and be a human being. You must not sell your friends to gain glory at the expense of others, and you must not do things that are harmful to nature and evil without conscience. When you meet someone who has no bottom line, stay as far away as possible.

Disobeying the rules and ignoring public order

"Han Feizi·Jie Lao" said: "Everything has its own rules." Dealing with others, treating others, and living apart from each other. No rules.

The reason why a civilized society can establish civilization is inseparable from law and morality. The reason why people can stand out from the crowd is because they have their own understanding of life and formulate their own rules to demand themselves.

The so-called social order is to allow everyone to enjoy a stable and comfortable life style. The reason society can operate in a civilized and harmonious manner is because the vast majority of people follow the rules. However, there is a kind of person who ignores all rules for the sake of personal happiness. For example:

They ignore areas where open flames are prohibited and smoking is prohibited, in order to light a fire and smoke freely; they ignore traffic regulations and cross the road for the so-called convenience, just to get to the opposite side faster; I keep shaking my legs while sitting in rows of seats; I find ways to jump in line when waiting in line; I turn the volume on my mobile phone to the maximum when others are taking a lunch break in the office, etc.

They euphemistically call it "the pursuit of freedom." In other words, asking them to abide by the rules means restricting their freedom. However, there is no absolute freedom in the world. A high degree of freedom comes from a high degree of self-discipline. How a gentleman gets along with villains 3

How to get along with "villains"

First of all, don't offend villains and keep your distance

I have seen some friends who hate evil as much as hatred. A strong sense of justice. Whenever I find a villain around me, even if the villain has not harmed me, I will expose it and make it public. This is actually not advisable.

"Historical Records" says: Advances and retreats, changing with the times, are the common ways of saints. That is to say: A man should advance and retreat in accordance with the changes of the times.

Villains are often narrow-minded and will retaliate for their grudges. When your own strength is not strong enough to intimidate villains, it is best to shut up appropriately to avoid creating a potential "enemy" for yourself.

Secondly, speak cautiously and just use polite greetings.

"Historical Records" says: Those who achieve great success do not seek to be publicized. People who can truly achieve great things will never plan things with ordinary people.

If you have a business idea or any resources at hand, you must not reveal it easily, let alone discuss with villains how to accomplish it.

After all, one of the characteristics of villains is that they forget their own good. When getting along with villains, remember not to say anything out loud, just say some innocuous and polite words.

Third, I would rather suffer a small loss than have any interests.

The interactions between people are extremely complicated, and it is inevitable that they will often end up with each other. The villain has interests involved. But you must remember: Sometimes you would rather suffer a small loss than have too many interests with villains.

"Historical Records" says: Taking the small and forgetting the big will be harmful later. It means that if you only care about current interests and ignore major issues, you will cause disaster in the future.

The most important thing for villains is interests. Once you touch their interests because of a small loss, they will use all possible means to retaliate against you, making you unprepared and losing more.

"Historical Records" said: "The bustling world is all for benefit; the bustling world is all for benefit." Human society always has interests. Since there are interests, there must be villains.

After reading "Historical Records", I think that we should not "love the gentleman and stay away from the villain", because the villain will not completely disappear, and we cannot completely stay away - you haven't stayed away from this yet One, and the next one may already be in your life.

Since you cannot truly stay away, you must learn to live in harmony with villains.