I don't even want to go back to my parents' house now. I am also a mother. Once I go back, sometimes the whole family will let me wash the dishes after dinner. I have a sister and a brother.

You don't need to wash it or ask someone to clean it for you.

Going home is also called going home in northern China. This is a unique custom of Han nationality 18 years old. Every year, on the second and third day of the first month, the married daughter goes back to her mother's house, and her husband goes with her, so it is commonly known as welcoming her husband's day.

Take a present when you go home. This is called holding hands or accompanying hands. A big bag of biscuits and candy must be arranged by the mother and distributed to the neighbors, just like the scene of the New Year. If there are many daughters at home, and these daughters don't come back on the same day, then we must share one at a time. The gift is quite thin, just four biscuits. But it reflects the deep affection, the real "courtesy is light and affection is heavy", and expresses the girl's miss for the villagers. When the girl goes home, if there is a nephew at home, menstruation has to pay again. Although she gave lucky money on New Year's Day, this time it had a different meaning.

The daughter who got married on this day went back to her parents' home to visit and even stay. Because it is very hard for my daughter to manage housework, serve her in-laws and deal with all kinds of relationships between her sister-in-law and aunt after marriage, the family will take her home for a few days during the Chinese New Year. This is called visiting relatives, but it is actually a rest. However, it expresses the traditional psychology that the working people of the Han nationality generally hope to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new. It embodies a deep affection, and the real "courtesy is light and affection is heavy", and the girl misses the villagers earnestly.