It's none of my business that you hate me, as if you like me and can sublimate my life!

This article is only for those who live in the eyes and mouths of others all day. May you get out of other people's world and live your own life as soon as possible.

The world is very big, and each of us is a very small individual. In order to live in this world better, we have to deal with different people. But after getting along for a long time, our shortcomings are exposed to others without reservation. From the beginning, I liked my toes and smelled the same, and then I got tired of seeing each other, so nothing happened.

But if you hate me, it's none of my business! Like you like me to sublimate my life.

I've heard too many people, and the gossip of others makes me confused. I analyze others' opinions about myself all day, and slowly, I feel hostile eyes everywhere, as if I had paranoia. Although things are impermanent, they are definitely not as terrible as you think. Let whoever hates it hate it!

So, I'll give you a few words to live your own life.

-0 1- Many people hate me. Who are you?

I saw this sentence on the Internet: Many people hate me. Who are you? Although it's a joke of a sketch, what's wrong with it? If anyone has such verve, he really has what he wants!

We are not born perfect people. Everyone's family situation and life background are different. Naturally, there will be many places that others don't like. Maybe if you save money, others will say you are stingy; Maybe you love cleanliness, others will say you are a neat freak; Maybe you like watching anime, others say you are naive and do nothing; Maybe you are obsessed with sex, others will say you are hypocritical and love acting.

We always hear many versions of ourselves from others, which often makes us feel at a loss and don't know which one is our real self. Actually, no one can make everyone like it. If you want to live comfortably, let them hate it. Remember: many people hate you. Who is he?

-02- Like it, please love it deeply. Don't like it, please go away.

Don't force everything. What is yours will always be yours, and what you like will never leave you. Even if you have everything you barely catch up with, you won't feel happy. So, relax: if you don't like it, go away.

Of course, it's not that I don't want to change. I just want to change for people and things that are worth it. You have to meet everyone's requirements, and you will never find yourself in this life.

I know such a girl, not beautiful, but one in a million. Good family conditions and gentle personality. Let's not talk about turning around when we go out together. But unfortunately, the feelings are not very satisfactory. I have been in college for three years and have been in love three times. What I hear most is breaking up. Knowing that her boyfriend's personality is average, she is still idle and often makes compromises. He would rather not eat by himself than buy expensive gifts for his boyfriend. Even so, I have to listen to her often. We all advised her that in this case, we might as well break up! But she can always say something nice about 100. When people break up with her, they always try their best to make up for it.

Maybe women are blind when they meet love! But don't lose your dignity because love has become humble. Love is not the only beautiful thing. If it's not deep love, then leave early.

So, don't try to turn every dislike into love. You have your life and your pursuit. When you succeed, everything you ever begged will be delivered to your door.

-03- What age are you thinking about and why are you bound by others?

Compared with those who are in their twilight years, we hold huge capital in our hands, that is youth! As long as you dare to think, do and give, you can get whatever you want. This is not an exaggeration, it is a fact. On the way to struggle, the terrible stumbling block is not yourself, but what others think of you. You will stop to think because others hate you. When a fellow traveler has been away for a long time, you still wonder why he said that. Unconsciously, you will be submerged in other people's gossip, and then your failure will become the talk of others after dinner. Consume you and entertain the public.

However, what I want to tell you is that since you have decided what you want to do, go ahead and do it, at least make sure that you have no regrets in retrospect. No matter what you think, you are still lucky.

Have you ever thought about how many people's lives can be changed through your efforts? How many years have you changed the quality of life? If you care about others, what can others give you in return? Give you a mocking look when you fail! So, do you understand now?

-04- It is not the future that is out of reach, but yesterday.

We always feel that the future is far away, and we just want to look forward desperately. In fact, the furthest thing from us is yesterday that we can't go back. No matter how brilliant yesterday was, we still have to fight today. If you failed yesterday, be strong today. Yesterday was the best lesson today.

I heard a man say yesterday that it has become like this today. We often can't help thinking of others. Always live carefully, think twice about every word, look at other people's faces and completely close your true self. If you give up my friend because I said something you don't like to hear, don't blame you, blame me for being blind. If I do something that makes you angry, don't stay with me. After all, people can't live many years in this life, lest you regret it.

Take yesterday as a mirror and look at today. Ask yourself what level of life you want to live, and whether you can not take others' comments so seriously.

If he hates you, let him go. Anyway, it's him who bothers you, not you! Don't always make yourself dizzy because of bigger things! When you cry, no one will come to wipe your tears.

People who live in other people's worlds can never really grow up. You don't need him to sublimate your life. Just be yourself. To get everything you like, let them go!

What did you say?/Sorry? If you want to overcome it, I look forward to your change!