Reading notes Reading is the most romantic upbringing.

Yes, in this era, if we neglect our children like parents, they really won't grow up well.

The philosopher Schopenhauer once told a fable: In the cold winter, a group of porcupines huddled together to keep warm. They found that they were stung by each other's thorns, but they felt cold after separation. After numerous retreats, these porcupines finally found a safe distance, which can keep warm without stabbing each other.

I believe that every parent loves their children and is willing to give everything for them, but we should also learn how to get along with children and find the most comfortable way to accompany them, just like those porcupines who can advance and retreat freely.

Material will always be consumed, and spiritual memory will last for a long time. What parents can leave to their children and encourage them is some warmth and romance!

Parent-child reading includes not only reading words, appreciating and sharing experiences, but also reading movies, music, nature and various lives and hearts together. ...

Reading is not only reading, but also watching movies and reading life from books and movies. Reading is also the most economical trip, and you can meet masters who cross national boundaries and time and space.

Parent-child reading is not for learning knowledge, but for adults to talk to their babies through picture books and let them feel love. This is a spiritual connection and a happy time for the whole family.

Children can feel the love in their parents' tone and feel the warmth and sweetness snuggling in their parents' arms.

The story in the picture book is read by parents, so the story must be loved by parents and will be moved. Don't choose this book just because it is recommended by others or won an award, because we don't necessarily know what others like.

Children are very sensitive. When we read the story we really like, the moving energy will be passed on to the children, making them subconsciously realize that reading is really the best moment in life.

At the same time, we should pay attention to the stories in picture books, not only with our eyes, but also with our ears, because the rhythm of watching and listening is different. Some stories look smooth, but they are strange to read, so this way of writing is not suitable for reading.

In addition, picture books are a combination of books and words, because children can't read. When we read stories over and over again, they just stare at the picture, so the beauty of the picture book is very important.

Scientists have done experiments and found that preschool children listen to their parents reading aloud and listening to tapes, and the effect is completely different.

When we hold our children in our arms and interact with each other's limbs and eyes, the sounds we read are meaningful to them. Otherwise, even the highest fax recording equipment is just like the sound of cars in the street, just background noise.

Therefore, if you want to read * * *, you should really enjoy the time with your children, instead of killing their time by recording tapes.

Telling a story without too many explanations and lessons makes the happy atmosphere of parent-child reading disappear quickly. The important thing of parent-child reading is to let children feel the happiness of reading invisibly, and lay a good foundation for the next stage of independent reading.

If parents really want to say something after reading the story, share their feelings or similar experiences at most, and remember not to force their children to say their feelings or experiences.

If children are willing to speak their best, don't force them to speak, because each child's language development is different. We must believe that even if the child can't express it, a good story will definitely bring him a lot of feelings. These experiences can make him slowly precipitate and transform in his growth.

Psychological research has continuously proved that people are situational animals. People can choose the environment and even change it, but once they live in the environment, the environment will change us in turn, as architect Wright said: "People shape the environment and the environment shapes people."

Making children's living environment full of books is a very simple and effective way to make children love reading.

In addition to the physical space we can see and touch, the information we contact every day, our life and our culture are also part of the environment.

In addition to increasing the number of books in public or school libraries, try to improve the utilization rate of students. If parents can afford it, buy as many books as possible, and at least help children prepare their own bookshelves, not textbooks, but their favorite novels. Of course, if possible, this bookshelf can be expanded into a study, or the space at home can be filled with books, just like a library, so much the better.

Any book worth reading, or any book you like, must be reread, and it is best to keep it at hand at any time.

Some good books may not have time to read at present, but it is worth reading if we want to read them. If these books don't always appear in our lives, there will definitely be fewer opportunities to read where we can see them.

The spirit of science is to explain and give a good and reasonable statement, not just the accumulation of knowledge. The so-called explanation is to try to give meaning to the phenomenon we observed, in fact, it is to give a reasonable or funny story.

Inspire children's enthusiasm for knowledge through stories. Guided by vivid, interesting and life-oriented stories, knowledge is no longer scary data that must be recited and tested. Even when children are used to making up a reasonable story for every observed phenomenon, they cultivate their real scientific spirit invisibly, and also let them get rid of the rigid thinking that only pursues a standard answer and cultivate their imagination and creativity.

We can also stimulate children's curiosity about scientific exploration through stories. In fact, as long as there is a strong motivation, children will find all the knowledge they should have. Curiosity-induced learning motivation is the most effective and lasting.

In fact, this is also effective for adults, because everything we can see in life is what we care about or what we are looking for. If it is not through the senses, it will cause our emotions and emotional input, and external things will not exist in our reason or study.

I always feel that a book we like must be something that can echo a desire in our hearts. In other words, reading a book that touches us is actually reading the light and shadow of our own life and exploring ourselves that we have never known before.

A book is like a magic mirror, reflecting its hidden self; Books are also like windows to our hearts. We can observe the world by reading.

Many parents will unconsciously choose books from the perspective of adults when they help their children choose books. Children don't necessarily like these books that adults like. If children think all books are so "boring", they will soon avoid books and escape to the video world and computer games full of sound and light stimulation.

The world famous books are rich, which can touch all kinds of permanent and ultimate problems of human beings and are worth reading again and again.

For children, they don't understand the background of the times described in the book, and they can't understand the scenes and atmosphere of that era. At the same time, children don't understand the laws, regulations and customs of that country at all, and it is not easy for them to enter the situation in the book.

In addition, it is more troublesome that world famous books are generally written by adults, so the topics of concern in the book, such as the struggle of human nature, the dilemma of good and evil, the test of love, etc., may not be of concern to children at this stage. In addition, world famous books are all famous books. If we want to turn them into children's books, we can only simplify them and finally become a story book without emotion.

What attracts us and moves us is by no means a summary of the plot, but the tension accumulated through dense words, laid-out atmosphere and wonderful dialogue ... If we only look at the abridged version, the original advantages of world famous books will be gone.

The best time to read world famous works should be when you have become a literary youth who loves reading, formed your own selection criteria through a lot of reading, constructed your own reading taste, and spontaneously searched for the full text of world famous works based on your own internal exploration.

I think adults should recommend stories written by contemporary writers specifically for children. They will use languages that children can understand, understandable situations, and topics that modern children care about.

Children are never carefree, they are sensitive and full of confusion. But the ability of expression is acquired and has not been trained. At this time, if you read a book that entered his life dilemma, think how excited and moved he will be! When children can find the problems that they have been puzzled for a long time from the book, their wandering hearts can also be understood and comforted from the stories, and there are situations that can be projected into them, so that they can feel the plight of the protagonist, agree with his choices and experience together. Children can not only enjoy reading, but also enter the most beautiful reading world, which is the most effective way to carry out life education.

In recent years, the education circle has begun to pay attention to "life education", because the most important premise of life education is to make students "moved", and life education is by no means the imparting of knowledge, nor is it a rigid moral lesson.

I believe that children will sigh when reading wonderful stories. This wonder is the time for us to re-understand the world, that is, to re-interpret the old experience and have different experiences and different understandings of familiar events.

Maybe the story belongs to others, but if it touches us, it will be woven with our lives.

When all knowledge is converted into data and stored on the computer, the cost is zero. How to combine fragmented data into meaningful information and send out strength depends on imagination and creativity, as well as a proactive heart.

Cultivate imagination &; The secret of creativity is to let children dare to ask questions and ask good questions. This needs to go back to all the experiences of previous lives, so it is not suitable for children in lower grades.

Good questions are more important than good answers. Whether a child has imagination, creativity and the spirit of active exploration depends on the questions asked.

Asking questions requires courage and ability, that is, constant training. No matter what the situation, if a child can boldly ask questions and ask good questions, it is equivalent to having the ability to pursue new knowledge and hyperlinks.

Call on more than a dozen families with children of the same age to hold a film appreciation meeting like a book club. I will choose movies, such as Whale Rider or Meeting Socrates at the Gas Station in the Late Night. After watching the movie, a group of people held a group competition, with three or five children as a group and parents as a group, and the group that asked the most questions won. Based on team competition and sense of honor, most children will bravely ask questions, which is also an opportunity to force them to think. After doing this for more than 20 times, I found that this method is effective across ages, classes and fields, regardless of the object.

Being able to ask questions = having a basis for thinking, the next step is to write it down.

Writing is the best way to organize one's thoughts. We usually think by writing. Frost, a famous American poet, once said, "How do I know what I'm thinking before I start writing?"

Use Japanese dramas to train children to ask questions and write compositions, and at the same time test their listening comprehension. From the questions asked and the articles written, I can detect whether they can capture the meaning beyond the interaction between people, whether they care about others, understand others, have empathy and so on. It is difficult to teach and cultivate the subtle truth hidden outside words and bodies, but it can be achieved through discussion in movies or Japanese dramas.

Moral preaching is boring, old-fashioned and annoying when it is spoken by a large group of people. The children were deeply moved when the characters in Japanese dramas said the same thing. So whenever I have something to say to my daughter, I will choose a Japanese drama to show them: Kao Shen, Dongda Special Training Class, Parents are Monsters, and The Queen's Classroom ... There are corresponding Japanese dramas for children to study hard, learn courage and have team spirit.

No matter what media is used, paper books or e-books, as long as they are processed books, there are costs. Besides the author's painstaking efforts, they were edited, discussed, revised and revised at different levels before publication. Basically, there are structures, levels, ideas and goals.

When we want to learn a new knowledge and a new field, we must find some classic books about that knowledge, read them carefully from beginning to end, and establish a complete outline in our mind, which can also be called the basic structure of knowledge. With such an overall understanding, many materials and trivial details found later can be properly placed in that framework to form meaningful understanding and memory.

Without a comprehensive understanding of this field, searching endless data on the Internet is not only useless, but also a waste of time and even harmful, which will drown us in the ocean of information.

Of course, online search is still beneficial. Its greatest advantage is that it is most helpful when we know exactly what data we are looking for. But don't forget, the premise is that we know what to look for and what questions to ask. As we all know, it is difficult to ask meaningful good questions without a thorough understanding of a subject.

What you can find online, others can find it. The key to our success lies in how you define the relationship between these information and how to use them with your imagination and professional knowledge. So, let's start with reading step by step.

This book has refreshed my understanding of parent-child reading. Parent-child reading is rich in content, including reading words, movies, music, nature, life and even life. So reading here is a way of education, a means of education, with the aim of educating children.

Reading, asking questions and writing form a complete closed loop. Asking questions is a bridge between reading and writing. This book explains in detail how to ask questions and the importance of asking questions.

Since I was born in Kirin, I have been thinking about how to educate Kirin Zen. After reading and thinking, I decided to start with what I am good at-reading and photography. As for how to achieve my educational goals in these two ways, I need to study deeply and think carefully.

As a novice mother, I hope I can take care of the present and take a long view. Both education and photography hope to establish their own system through learning, and then use this system to help unicorn Chan know the world and himself.