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Parent-child reading speech
Parent-child reading speech 1 Dear parents and friends,
(used when meeting at night) Good evening.
I'm Wang's mother. First of all, I would like to thank the school teacher for giving me such an opportunity to stand here and discuss the education of children with you. I feel very honored. I also want to thank my children. It is her trust that gives me the courage to stand here.
There are not many children at home now. We are both parents and friends of our children. How can we be children's friends and establish a harmonious parent-child relationship? Let me share some experiences of children growing up.
First, establish a harmonious parent-child relationship, accept children unconditionally and respect them.
I say a very touching thing at this point. When the child was young, we played jokes on her several times and said that you were not good, so we changed to a new baby. Our jokes are casual, but they are different in children's minds. Therefore, my daughter was very sensitive to our attitude when she was young. When we were a little mean to her, she burst into tears and said that her mother didn't like me or love me. I realized that our joke had hurt her. It took us a long time to dispel the shadow of this joke. This incident taught me a lesson. No matter what the child did, we never said we didn't like her and didn't want her.
Of course, now that children have grown up, their hearts are strong, but children are very sensitive to one thing, that is, exam results. She failed in the exam, went home dejectedly, and then piteously asked us if we didn't like her because we failed in the exam. At that time, I first asked her why she didn't do well in the exam and whether she was careless. At this time, she can tell the reason why she didn't score a question. She can say that the problem has been solved. All she needs is a big hug from us.
Accepting children means accepting their uniqueness, and don't blindly compare with other children.
Every child has his own characteristics, such as ours, which is the slow-heating type. When she was young, like many parents, we wanted her to learn some talents, so we sent her to learn piano. And the child of a friend who studied together. The two children are very close at ordinary times, but in learning the piano, their characteristics are revealed. My friend's children learn quickly and master the rhythm well, while ours are much slower and often can't keep up with the rhythm. Gradually, this contrast puts a lot of pressure on the child and affects her confidence in learning. Realizing this problem, I didn't force her. Besides, I was very busy that year, so that matter was put aside. Our friend's children persisted, and after one year, they had a small harvest. When we played together, other people's achievements were displayed, and my daughter felt very lost. At this time, I discussed with her. Why don't we learn a simpler one? My daughter is beginning to hesitate. What happened earlier made her lose confidence. I took her to see the teacher, and gradually the child became interested. We also agreed to stick to it and not give up halfway. So we began to learn guzheng from the second grade, and the child felt very smooth for more than a year.
Another thing is learning English. Many children around us are learning English. Seriously, as parents, we are very anxious, for fear that our children will lose at the starting line. I also discussed with her about going to the training class, but she saidno. I analyzed the pros and cons for her, but she still insisted on not going. I said yes, you don't study now, and when the English class starts, you have to work harder than other students to keep up with everyone. She said yes for sure. When I first started school, it was really not very good. We cheered her up. We have different starting points. What we have to do now is to read more and practice more, and the children are also very cooperative.
The biggest trouble of our family education today is that parents don't spend enough time with their children. In fact, every parent's most important investment in their children is companionship. In children's eyes, parents mean security. I didn't take my child with me for two years, and I have to accompany her every weekend. Every time she goes to work, she cries very sadly and breaks a mother's heart. Later, when she was older, I discussed with her what to do with her mother. In fact, her staying with me is also a form of stocking. I do my thing, she asks the children to play, comes to the office to find me if there is anything, and makes an appointment to go home, but the children are very happy, and this life has also cultivated a certain degree of independence. Now we go hiking, reading in the library, going to the countryside and even doing housework and cleaning together on weekends. My daughter often says that the weekend passes too fast.
As parents, we all love our children, and we should also be suitable for our children. Different children have different needs. Most children always like to be praised. Or a small unexpected gift, or a hug from mom and dad, and what children need is services, such as cooking a delicious meal for their children. The problem here is that our parents should always be curious about their children, see what they like and do what they like. I come to the conclusion that my daughter likes accident. I am on duty at school, and no one cooks at home. When she is with her father, she eats out and eats whatever she wants. When she is with me, she can only solve it in the school cafeteria. Once, one of our colleagues played a joke on her, saying that the food in the canteen was delicious and she often came here to rub rice. My daughter's answer is very direct. It's delicious, but not as delicious as my mother's. I was a little touched when I heard that. Children can taste their mother's taste in food.
Third, effective communication.
I think the most meaningful thing I did when my child was growing up was to write a lot of diaries for her, write down some meaningful and interesting things that happened during her growing up, and occasionally open them to her. After she became literate, she never got tired of reading those diaries.
After she went to school, what we talked about most was: Did you have a good time at school today? What is the harvest; What interesting things happened in the class? After opening the topic, she began to tell us her story. In this exchange, we can learn something about her at school. In her story, we also got to know her classmates and learned about her study. Sometimes she tells her little secrets. I learned from the shared secrets that children are too precocious now, so it is very important for us as parents to give an adaptive guidance.
Feelings need to be expressed.
We should express our inner feelings when communicating with children. Expressing your inner feelings is an important part of communication. Such as "I'm sorry you did this", "I'm afraid you'll be back so late today" and so on. Such language gives children understanding and warmth, and it is easy to cause children's empathy, which is naturally easy for children to accept. Once, she went out to play with her classmates. Originally, she said that she would go home after playing for half an hour, but as a result, the children forgot the time as soon as they played. Later, she went home and told her that we were worried that she would not come back on time. There are too many unsafe factors outside, and mom and dad are not at ease. At this time, she was embarrassed, and she also felt that her parents cared about her warmth.
Besides oral communication, we also communicate through notes. For example, when I am on duty, she will follow me. Actually, she can't see me. She was still awake when I went out in the morning. When I came back in the evening, she was already asleep, but if she had anything to say, she would write it on paper and put it on the pillow. If you let me hug her when I sleep, or say that you like me, it will be very warm.
Compared with those children with excellent academic performance, my children still have many shortcomings; Compared with my parents, there are still many gaps, so I'm not talking about experiences, but feelings. It will be my great honor if I can arouse your parents' admiration. Finally, I wish all teachers, parents and friends a smooth job and a happy family, and I wish every child a healthy and happy growth!
Parent-child reading speech 2 Teachers, parents, friends and children:
(used when meeting in the afternoon) Good afternoon.
As the ancients said, reading is good, but you don't want to know much. Reading is an entertainment that can bring infinite fun to children. At the same time, it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. The earlier the better. Children's growth is inseparable from fairy tales. Reading aloud for children, reading with children, and making the little life feel the fun of the story and the warmth of being cared for are the starting point of early reading and the key link of early education. So when Lang Lang was very young, I deliberately made time to study with him, and in a happy atmosphere full of affection, I was intoxicated with the world of books with my children. Enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together. The following is my experience and encouragement about parent-child reading:
First, choose the right books for children.
There are many beautiful books in the book market now, so parents should know how to choose a good story or a good time. Choose books according to children's interests, protect children's interest in reading, and buy more such books for him. At the same time, he is also encouraged to read some other books to broaden his horizons and increase his knowledge. With interest, children will regard reading as a pleasure, not a burden. I bought all kinds of picture books, and I know about fruits and animals, transportation and so on. I've been reading with him since I was free. The children's grandparents are retired, so I have more time to accompany him to read books and tell him stories. Under the guidance of his family, his son's reading habits gradually developed. Second, what impressed me most in parent-child reading was your persistence.
Second, parent-child reading is first and foremost perseverance.
Our parents have to work hard every day and do housework when they get home from work, but no matter how busy they are, they still have time to spare 15 to 30 minutes every day. It is enough to accompany him to read 15 to 30 minutes every day, so that 15 minutes becomes the expectation of children and the channel for parents and children to communicate. Parents can accompany their children to read books at noon, before going to bed at night and on weekends, so that children can know what is right and wrong through the stories in the book and learn to grow up.
Third, create a good reading environment for children and make them fall in love with reading.
Let children contact books as much as possible and create a family atmosphere for reading. Family members often read books at home, regard reading as a pleasure and infect their children with their enthusiasm. When reading with children, try to use childish language. Sometimes the language in the book is abstruse and my son doesn't understand it very well, so I try to tell it to him in common language. When I sleep at night, I will tell him stories; When the child is older, I will try my best to let him make up stories. In the process of telling stories, children's language expression ability and imagination are developed, and parent-child relationship is also enhanced. At the same time, you can often exchange reading methods and experiences with your children and encourage them to repeat stories or specific contents in the book. In this way, children's interest in reading may become stronger and their reading level will gradually improve.
Fourth, read more stories to children and stimulate their desire to read.
Children like listening to stories. Parents can read stories to their children before going to bed at night and tell them that the stories are all in the books. If you can read a book by yourself, you can know many stories. You can say this every time you read a story, which will arouse children's desire to read. In a certain period of time, most babies are "never tired of listening to the same story or book" and repeatedly ask to tell it again. Mom and dad must be very satisfied with this. At this time, it is the process for her to remember stories, deepen the impression of characters and understand the meaning of words. That's how my son likes reading. After coming home from kindergarten at night, I often read a story book by myself and ask my parents if I don't know any words.
Let's study with our children and grow up together.
Parent-child reading speech 3: I am very glad to have this opportunity to exchange the experience of parent-child reading with you. Let me briefly talk about my experience.
First of all, we should cultivate children's interest in books. When the baby was a few months old, I bought her a lot of wall charts and story books and took them with me. Up to now, she has been able to find books by herself, rummaging through her mouth and chanting. This creates a reading atmosphere at home, so that the baby can get in touch with books as much as possible and cultivate her interest in reading. We adults should also read more books at home, regard reading as a kind of fun, and let children imperceptibly, from imitation to integration, thus gradually forming habits.
In addition, I want to say, spend more time with your children. I think every parent knows that reading can promote children's language development, thinking ability and imagination, and lay a foundation for their future study. I have made up my mind more than once to tell a story to Ji Yuxin every day, but sometimes I always find reasons for myself. I'm too busy today, so don't tell it. But now think about it, the child is my own, spend more time with the child and communicate with the child.
Also, I found that the baby never tires of listening to the same story or book and repeatedly asks to tell it again. At this time, we will take pains to satisfy our children again and again. In fact, at this time, children are memorizing stories, deepening their impressions of characters and understanding the meaning of words. After the story is finished, I always encourage my baby to repeat the story in the book, even if he can only say a few words in pieces, so that he can have a process of thinking for himself. Sometimes I encourage children to use their imagination to continue to make up stories.
In the past, our baby was too timid to speak. Through reading, her vocabulary gradually increased. Of course, this is inseparable from the guidance of several teachers. Thank you very much for your help to Ji Yuxin.
That's all. This is not good. Please criticize and correct me.
Parent-child reading speech 4 Dear teachers, parents and children:
Good afternoon everyone!
I am xxyy's mother, a child of this class. The topic I share with you is: "Take advantage of the situation and give children wings to read."
The evaluation of "Scholarly Baby" in this class and the previous book sharing activities made me feel the different needs of the two children. After participating in these activities, children's reading interest and expression ability have been greatly improved!
Here, please allow me to express my sincere thanks to all the teachers! (Bowing)
It is their great efforts to make our children grow up healthily!
The teacher asked me to share the experience of parent-child reading with you, which made me very nervous. I've been thinking about it for a long time, and I haven't figured out what I have achieved in parenting. Both children are normal, and there is still much room for improvement in all aspects. As parents, it is our most basic duty to cooperate with teachers. Since there is no successful experience, let me talk about my parenting experience.
My husband and I are out of town and have no old relatives in this city. Both parents are old or sick and can't give us much help. Therefore, from the birth of the child, we have to take care of everything of the two children. These children were in poor health when they were young. In my impression, they have never been to the hospital for almost a month, and they have to be infusion bottles for several days almost every time they get sick.
And xx's reading enlightenment began in the hospital.
When I was about one year old, I once went to the hospital for intravenous drip because of a fever. Children love to move, they run away when they move the needle, and they have to re-prick it. The adults are very distressed, and the children are also very distressed. When I was at my wit's end, I accidentally dug out a book entitled "Knowing Car Signs" from my bag and read it to him. At first, I just wanted him to have a quiet injection. I didn't expect the injection to come down in a few days, and he actually knew all the dozens of car logos in the book.
From then on, I began to buy books for yy, from the initial car bidding to books related to cars, from ordinary cars and special cars to engineering cars, from understanding the types of cars to understanding the basic structure of cars, to gradually understanding the simple principles, from just looking at pictures to reading words, xx began his reading journey in this way.
Compared with xx's early interest in writing, yy's interest in reading is obviously much slower. For two or three years, I can't remember when he read a book. Until one day, he saw an old children's pictorial sent by his colleague in the bookcase and asked me to tell him the story. I told it many times. So I bought a bound edition of children's pictorial online. At one time, yy asked us to tell the story of red kangaroo every day, and even asked us to finish writing a book. I am often thirsty, but I am very pleased to see him listening with relish.
At one time, two children liked watching TV "Bears Come and Go". Although I don't like it, I still bought the book "Bears haunt" online. Although the dialogue in the book is a bit vulgar, I can see that yy likes watching it very much, so she doesn't care about those rude words.
I know yy's reading still has a long way to go, and I hope he can read by himself like xx, but I understand that children can never be forced. All we can do is wait. Even if we wait like this, it may be several years.
To sum up our efforts in children's reading, I think there are mainly the following points:
First, create a good reading environment.
I haven't turned on TV at home since I was pregnant, and I don't have time to watch TV after the baby is born, so the tradition of not watching TV at home has continued until now.
As children grow up, TV computers are always inevitable. So, we download the programs we think we can watch from the Internet and publish them on TV. In this way, parents can ensure that the TV content is healthy and beneficial, and they can also better grasp the time when their children watch TV, make an appointment every time, and consciously turn off their mobile phones after watching it. In this respect, both children have done well.
My husband and I like reading books when we are free. Books are scattered everywhere in almost every room in the house. Although it is difficult for us to study quietly with our two children, even if it is just for show, we should let the children know that reading is a very good activity and both parents like it.
Second, make the best use of the situation, regardless of cost.
A friend asked me: What books should a three-year-old child read and what books should a five-year-old child read? I never understood: What books do your children read? Why do they ask others? Boys and girls have different interests, even if the gender is the same, different children have different interests. What others recommend must be suitable for your child? In my opinion, there is only one condition for buying books for children, and that is: children like them. He likes robots, so he buys robot books, and if he likes dinosaurs, he buys dinosaur books, and then slowly expands and extends.
Some friends think that children can't read until they finish reading a book. If they just look at it and put it down, the book will be wasted. In my opinion, the so-called open book is beneficial. As long as children are willing to read, even if they only read one page and buy 50 books, even if they only read one, they can still read. It may be a waste to buy it, but at least the children have a chance to learn. If you don't buy it, how do you know if your child likes it or not? Ask yourself, how many books have we read besides our favorite books?
Third, wait patiently and don't put any pressure on your child.
You may think that I have done a good job in children's reading, but in fact, the so-called experience I have summed up in one child cannot be copied in another child. Finally, I have to admit that children are good to others, which has nothing to do with us, and children are bad to us, which has nothing to do with children.
Every child has his own specialty. The so-called advantages turn into disadvantages from another angle, and disadvantages can also turn into advantages in turn. Xx, who reads a lot, still has a lot to improve in personality, such as self-care, the ability to properly solve emotions, and the awareness of actively caring for others. Yy, who studies less, is just more affectionate, considerate, caring for others, better able to handle her emotions and better able to take care of herself.
Reading is really good, but it is not a hobby that every child must like right away. We are eager for children to read, but we can't force them to like it. We read with our children and feel the joy of reading together. I believe that one day, the child who once had no interest in reading has been quietly reading in a corner.
In the past two years, children have read many useful stories from the school book sharing activities. Judging from the selection activity of "Scholarly Baby", xx, who has been unwilling to tell stories to others, can now read and tell stories to us at home. On the way to cultivate children's reading, in addition to taking advantage of the situation and actively encouraging them, they are more subtle and patient. In addition to the efforts of parents, it is more about the growth of children themselves!
The most important thing is that books can travel far, and reading is fun. We hope that the hobby of reading can be cultivated into children's blood, and that reading can not only change their fate, but also bring them happiness all their lives! We may be dull all our lives, neither rich nor expensive, and this is the only hobby that can be left to our children!
Finally, I sincerely wish all teachers and parents a happy New Year and all the best! I wish all children happy and healthy growth every day! (Bowing)
Parent-child reading speech 5 Dear teachers and parents:
Hello!
I am the parents of xx students in Class 5, Grade 3. I have learned a lot from the recent reading activities between teachers and students, parents and children, so I am honored and very grateful to the school teacher for giving me such an opportunity to exchange and learn with you.
My daughter likes reading books very much, especially extracurricular books. She likes them very much and attracts her. As long as there are books at home that she hasn't finished reading, she will always read and often tell me. I know she wants to share her reading experience with me, but I seldom accompany her to read, and I don't know much about the contents of the book. She just tells me. I participated in the activity of teachers and students falling in love with parents and children, and I learned a lot, and I was a little sorry for my daughter. Now I try to find time to learn and communicate with my daughter. In particular, the four books recommended by the school, Education of Love, If you give me three days of light, Charlotte's Web and Little Peas by the Window, are all very good. Children tell stories while reading, which is wonderful and touching.
When she read the book "If Give Me Three Days of Light", Helen Keller described in the book is a true story on the way to school. Helen Keller, the protagonist in the book, has touched my daughter countless times. The book describes that under the care and guidance of Sullivan, Helen Keller gradually became a child that everyone liked very much. It was an unknown teacher's company that made Helen Keller's future life path.
After reading this book, my daughter said, "As long as you pay, you will get something." . I know, she gets it. The power that books bring to children is endless, so spend more time with your children and read good books! There is only one purpose-to make children fall in love with reading, develop a good habit of reading, and benefit for life.
Thank you!
Parent-child reading speech 6 Teacher Jin, Teacher Wang, parents and children:
Good afternoon everyone.
I feel very happy and honored to speak as a parent representative. After listening to several parents' speeches, I was deeply touched and inspired. Here, I also want to share my views with you.
Our children's activities are basically two points and one line between school and family, so the position of educating children is also in these two places. In school, children's growth is inseparable from the careful cultivation and hard work of teachers, while in family, parents become educators.
A wrong book, arranged once a week. Now that the children are still young, this work is mainly done by me. Extract the typos and misspelled words that have appeared in the usual study from the typo book, so that children can strengthen and consolidate; The wrong problems in mathematics, expand the application, help children sort out and classify, let children practice, and try to achieve the effect of giving inferences by analogy. The best way to help children reduce their burden is to increase the burden on their parents.
The growth of children is a gradual process, and the formation of habits is not a one-off event, but a process of constant repetition and constant correction. As long as you consciously and correctly guide in your life. The score of an exam is accidental, but whether parents are responsible or not determines the development direction of children. Children need our help now, and today's help is for not helping or helping less in the future. Otherwise, the problems will accumulate and the gap will widen, and both children and us will suffer.
There is a book called The Catcher in the Rye, which says that education is neither management nor neglect. Between management and neglect of management, there is a word called "look". Let's look at the children's future together and wait for the flowers to bloom.
Thank you!
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