Successfully married a cheating man

01 Marriage is a lie. He and I are 17 years apart. When I first got together with him, I was only 23 years old, and he was already 40 years old. I admit, I am willing to be his mistress because he is rich. He disliked his wife very much, so I easily succeeded in marrying him. After getting married, his children hated me very much. After all, they were not my biological children. In the fifth year of marriage, I gave birth to a son for him, and he loved his son very much. In the sixth year of marriage, we separated. There was a big age gap, different ideas, and more and more quarrels, so we had to separate. After the separation, he was living and drinking outside, looking for women one after another. I quarreled with him about this, and he said to me contemptuously: "Who do you think you are? You want to control me? You don't even care about what you are." I realized that as a high-ranking mistress, it is difficult to win Even her own husband looks down upon herself when others respect her. I am not happy in such a marriage, but I dare not divorce because I am afraid that he will let me clean up and leave the house. 02. Being criticized by others. From the time I was a junior to becoming a wife, my life was very stressful. I broke down and wanted to cry several times. My parents never gave me a good look, but my parents-in-law had a very good relationship with my ex-daughter-in-law, and they hated me extremely. Every time I go out, the neighbors look at me with obvious contempt, and they often talk about me behind my back. And my husband is also indifferent to me, and he has long lost the passion he had at the beginning. I feel like the world has abandoned me, and my mood is getting worse day by day, which is very uncomfortable. How many mistresses who have successfully reached positions tell us from personal experience that they will not be happy. And the happiness and joy stolen will be repaid with double the pain. Therefore, if a woman wants to be happy, her methods must be aboveboard! 03 Recovering from cheating Marriage is not easy, and getting to the end is even more difficult. How to recover from a cheating husband? When you learn that the other person has cheated on you, you will definitely not be able to accept this fact in your heart. You are angry and sad, but you are unwilling to give in and want to save this marriage. When he first cheated, he would enjoy the fresh life he got from a third party, and at the same time he would also feel some guilt about his family. At this time, he will usually lie and delay between you and the third party to satisfy his own selfish desires. Successful Marrying a Cheating Man 2: Making Cheating Men Regret 1. Find someone to cheat on, say bad things about the man, and break them up. In your marriage, you don’t have to be polite to a man who hurts you; even if you say that your lover can’t make it, , we can still be friends; but in many cases, women will still be very sad; because they have given everything and given their sincerity; but they never thought that their good intentions would be treated cruelly by their lovers, and they felt so sad in their hearts Naturally, it will be particularly painful; many women, at this time, are thinking about what they can’t get, and others can’t get it either. As a woman, after your man cheats on you, the way to make him regret is that what you can’t get, others can’t get. You can find the person your man cheated with, find that woman, and have a good chat with her. Chat; talk about how bad your man is, tell her all the bad things about him, so that she must pay attention in her heart; talk about how changeable and unbearable your man is; fall in love with someone when you meet him, and show your true feelings to him. , sooner or later they will be hurt; try every means to break them up. 2. Divorce a man and never want to see him. On the road to marriage, every woman cannot tolerate a grain of sand in her eyes. Because she has truly loved, she cares so much about everything; It’s not so painful; so many women, when their men betray them, will have the idea that they should break off with the man and never be together; this is the man’s choice, and this is what the man must bear. Responsibility; therefore, we will never meet each other.

As a woman, how to make your man regret after he cheats on you? You can bear the pain and let him go. No matter how painful it is, don’t care so much. Put him down and never have anything to do with him. ; For a man who doesn’t love you or respect you, you don’t need to be polite to him, and you don’t need to be bound by him; since he has chosen to be cruel to you, you don’t need to be polite to him; divorce a man, Never meet again; let him pay the corresponding price for his actions. 3. Don’t divorce him, cheat on him to get revenge on him. On the way to marriage, many men will betray their loved ones; this is a kind of pain and helplessness; but as a woman, when she encounters a man who treats her like this He himself will be very sad and in special pain; so at this time, he will have his own thoughts. Many women will choose to take revenge on the person they love; he will think about how to treat the man how he treats him. Men; if a man does the first grade of junior high school, then he can do the fifteenth grade. As a woman, after your man cheats on you, the way to make him regret it is that he can be in the first year of junior high school, and you can be in the fifteenth year of junior high school. Because he is unkind, not that you are unjust. Don't be angry with him, and don't Do something sad with him; he is looking for women outside, and you are looking for men outside; put a hat on him every day to make him feel pain; sometimes, you can also bring other men back to your home, Let him see you loving each other, and he will definitely want to die. Here are some ways for a woman to make a cheating man regret it; you can talk to the cheating partner and tell her what a treacherous man your man is. Any woman who follows him will definitely not There will be a good outcome; you can divorce the man, never meet him, and all his property will be in your name; you can also not divorce him, he will be in the first grade of junior high school, and you will be in the fifteenth grade; he can You can cheat on him, and you can show him another one every day. The psychology of cheating men after confessing 1. Many men cheat secretly and don’t want their wives to know. But if this man is willing to confess, tell you that he may have a clear conscience, perhaps because there is no real cheating, and it is not considered an emotional betrayal. Therefore, a man will feel more confident in his heart and feel that by taking the initiative to speak out, he can ask the woman for forgiveness, which is much better than when his wife knows to hold him accountable in the future. 2. There are also some men who have clearly cheated, but still confess to their wives, but they will have reservations when confessing. At this time, they actually felt a little guilty and used this method to forgive each other. Even if the wife hears something unpleasant in the future, she will still believe her husband. This may be the man's calculation, and it is a smarter approach. What to do if a man cheats on you 1. Avoid stalking and reduce proactive contact. Many women love to express their emotions. Whether they are angry or wronged, they can’t help but want to tell the other person. In fact, in relationships, sometimes you need to hold back, especially when After a breakup or divorce, if your partner cheats and separates, you should not take the initiative to seek peace in the short term, but learn to reduce your sense of need and ignore the other party for a period of time. If you are disgusted with you, on the contrary, give the other person a cold shoulder to make the other person feel that you are not indispensable to him, and even make the other person feel that you have a suitor. This will attract his attention, let him take the initiative to recall your good qualities, and arouse his feelings towards you. Your favor.

2. Improve your own value. If you want the other person to take the initiative to find you, then you must have advantages that attract the other person. If you have been together before, it means that you were actually attracted to each other before, but as time goes by, the two people become more and more attracted to each other. The more familiar you are, the less novelty you feel, and you will even see the other person’s shortcomings, so your feelings will naturally fade away. At this time, if there is someone around you that attracts him, he will naturally be unable to control himself. So this is a man’s nature. But if you want to learn to maintain a relationship, you must first maintain your own attraction. No matter how long you have been together, don’t forget to dress yourself up, and don’t forget to cultivate more of your interests and hobbies, so that the other party can always discover the new you, even Discover a complete stranger in you, so that the man's freshness will be satisfied. During the freezing period, you should not take the initiative to contact the other person. This time is used to improve yourself and attract him again, so that the man can take the initiative. Looking for you, even actively seeking peace. If a man cheats on you, teach you how to make him regret it for the first time in his life. Take the initiative to break up. If a man cheats on you, why should you keep him? Don’t try to save such a person. Tell him loudly, let’s break up. You scumbag, don’t be sad. You should. Thank you, thank you to that woman for allowing you to see through the essence of this man. Second, dress yourself up and live a better life. Buy new clothes and get a new hairstyle. Let yourself live younger and younger, let him know that you will become more beautiful and happier if you leave him, and pass by him when there is nothing wrong. "I don't mean anything, I just want to show off my youth." Haha. Third, chat with the mistress to find his current girlfriend. The two of them have a chat and tell her how this man took care of himself before. How could this man be so obedient to her, how could she please herself, and finally told her, "He was so good to me at first, but when he met you, he still gave up on me. You have to be careful, don't end up in this situation." The same fate as me." Then walked away. These words will take root in Xiaosan's heart. There is actually nothing to fear when a man cheats. We didn’t live well before we were with him. We don’t want to live in the invisibility of the past. Maybe the sun ahead will be brighter, and we will also meet someone who is better than him and who can A man to whom you can trust your whole life.