As a parent, can children fight when they are disobedient?

Yes, for a disobedient child, if he still can't be disciplined after all kinds of means have been exhausted, he is still very stubborn and goes his own way, so he should use the killer at this time to let him feel the authority of his parents. With the help of violence, we can easily make our children obey our discipline, and as long as we beat our children moderately, it will not bring much psychological trauma to them.

Generally speaking, the behavior that may bring psychological trauma to children is that they never hit their children, but occasionally give them a slap or a stick, and then the children will remember it for life. However, if we often beat our children, and they have become accustomed to it, then he will not hold a grudge or complain that we beat him. He knew that he did make mistakes, and the consequences of these mistakes were bound to be beaten, and he would accept it frankly, because he felt that it was useless to resist fate, but he might be beaten more fiercely.

Of course, beating a child is also an art, and it needs careful consideration. If the child's behavior is really stubborn, his mistakes are really big enough, or he has really violated our authority, it is very necessary to teach the child a lesson.

But if the child only makes some small mistakes, or even no mistakes at all, we will hit him and use violence at will, which will be very painful for the child. He will feel that there is no warmth in this family, and he will always be full of indifference and violence. No one will ever understand him, so he will not feel happy.

The child taught at this time is either an extremely introverted Nuo Nuo-only child with little promise, or a person who is extremely advocating violence and always resorts to violence, hoping to conquer and possess others with violence. Both of them are the results of excessive beating of children, and both of them make children go to extremes, so we should also be cautious.