How to deal with greedy relatives?

To deal with relatives who are greedy for petty gain, we should first keep a firm wall and clear the field, and lock the lock, that is, put away our valuable and precious things from them.

If your things are unfortunately taken away by shameless relatives, you need to have a good talk with your parents to explain how expensive you lost this thing. Many times, parents will think that this thing is worthless, so it's no harm to be personal. When they know how expensive it is, they will help you stop it.

If it really doesn't work, then let this petty relative lose face and lose a bigger face than the big one. When I was a child, my uncle brought me a beautiful piece of red material from abroad.

when my mother was going to make it for a tailor, my aunt saw it and said that she knew a tailor from Shanghai, and her skills were better. After half a month, I put on my new clothes, that is, the coat I originally planned turned into a blouse. My mother asked me what the rest of the material was? Aunt said the tailor had run out.

mom has doubts, but she can't ask any more questions. Never, never. I met my cousin at the New Year's Day Garden. She was wearing a beautiful red skirt, just like my red blouse.

mom was so angry that she talked to her aunt, who insisted that it was the material she bought separately. Mom complained to my dad, and my dad said that it was my sister. What can I do?

So, the next day, I went to my uncle's unit with my schoolbag on my back. After I found my aunt, the chairman of the trade union, I sweetly said to her, Aunt Chairman, can you help me talk to my uncle and ask him to give me back my clothes stolen by my aunt? That Japanese material is so expensive.

Aunt Chairman was stunned. After a while, my uncle came, and his mouth was: Why are you such a foolish child? Did your mother ask you to come?

I didn't answer, but I just cried. I cried for more than half an hour, and the whole faculty building was shocked. The next day, my aunt brought 3 yuan to my mother with a lot of complaints. I carried my schoolbag on my back, and then went to my uncle's unit to smile sweetly and cry greatly.

By the time I cried, my uncle lost the year-end bonus. Of course, my father wanted to hit me, but I told him that if I did, your sister's year-end bonus might be lost.

in this way, my home has been kept clean at least until now, and my father has never made the mistake of "that's my X. What do you want me to do?" A large family is still happy.