What should parents do if their children keep buying toys as soon as they go out to play?

In fact, many people will leave messages to Luo Dad asking me related questions. We often find it difficult to deal with this problem, because we want to give our children love and freedom, but we are worried that they will be spoiled. So in view of this problem, we can look at this problem from two aspects.

1, if you don't buy it, you must know how to make rules with your children.

First of all, children at this stage can't think everything independently, so making rules is sometimes to help children think everything within the rules. Let the child think about a problem, not just what is on his mind. Because children will only consider whether they want it or not, not whether they want it or not. Then making rules can make children change their minds. For example, after making an agreement with their children, your mother will take you out. You can't clamor for something, but your mother will buy it for you when you need it. After the agreement, when the children really meet again, they will basically not clamor for it again. Of course, children can also be agreed to buy toys twice a year 1 time, or how often to buy toys 1 time so that children can learn to wait.

2, buy, you can look at it from the perspective of cultivating children's financial business.

Our family buys toys for children, not only because "children want them", but also because it is an opportunity to educate children about financial business.

Sometimes my children will see what toys others have, and they will want to have them, so they will tell me what toys they want. I will actually meet their occasional demands, but not immediately. I will keep their appetite, such as "I will say, this toy is a bit expensive!" " There is no extra money to buy toys at home at present, but I will try to save enough money to buy them for you. Dad is confident that I can save enough money to buy it for you in two months. Can you wait a little longer? "Children generally agree, but in the past two months, I will often tell my children: How much money I have saved now is almost enough! Let the children know that I have not forgotten, and I will take them to buy when I am two months old. At this time, in fact, children will cherish toys more and understand and respect toys because of their parents' efforts.

In fact, parents face their children, and life is education. We should know how to seize the opportunity of education. Sometimes a very small thing, such as buying a toy, is a very small thing, but it reflects an educational problem, so parents don't have to worry too much. On the contrary, they regard every time a child has any problems as an educational opportunity, and believe that the child will become more and more sensible.