My family is in the countryside, and my husband and father-in-law both like smoking. My husband packs a pack of cigarettes every two days, and his salary is only 3000 a month, especially for his fathe

My family is in the countryside, and my husband and father-in-law both like smoking. My husband packs a pack of cigarettes every two days, and his salary is only 3000 a month, especially for his father-in-law. Hello! Let me help you analyze it.

In fact, the essential problem you are facing is not male smoking and drinking, but male chauvinism in rural areas. As you can see from your words, you actually have no right to speak when you marry your husband's family. They don't accept or care about your opinion.

My advice to you is: if you think your husband is reliable, communicate with him and talk to him alone. Because you can't talk to your in-laws, they treat you like an outsider. For the sake of your husband's health and future family expenses, I'd better persuade him to give up smoking. If he doesn't listen, he can talk to other relatives and friends and ask them to persuade him.