You were looking for a job with your friend and she failed the interview. Will you join the job?

The answer is to get hired.

Sometimes, when we are in life or in the workplace, we will encounter that kind of coincidence. Some of these coincidental things may be good things for you, while others may make you feel distressed and worried.

Of course, this is also related to the good or bad nature of the matter. When you decide whether this matter is a good thing or a bad thing for yourself, the direct impact it brings to you Feelings will affect your mood.

Of course, some of the things you find distressing must need to be resolved now that they have happened. In this regard, today we will talk about you interviewing with a classmate and colleague. You passed the interview and successfully joined the job, but he did not join the job. If you encounter this situation, how will you deal with the relationship between them?

1. Have a meal with him

First of all, the editor thinks that when you encounter this situation, you can adjust the other person's mood first. After all, even though you are classmates, you may still have a pretty good relationship with each other when you get along.

But after this incident, no matter how good your relationship is, he will definitely still have a psychological imbalance and an embarrassing feeling.

If you were together at that time, you could intuitively feel this feeling. So, when you encounter this kind of situation again, if you want to maintain the relationship between you, you definitely can't just sit back and ignore it. In this case, you will only lose a friendship because of this work situation.

Then, after you feel his mood swings, you can use other ways to divert his attention, such as going for a meal with him.

While eating, you can talk to this classmate about some happy things to make him feel better. If you do this, at least in the mind of this classmate, there will actually be much less opinions about you.

2. Let him not be discouraged

The second thing is to let him not be discouraged. In this kind of interview situation, it is normal for some people to be selected and others to be rejected. It just happened that my classmates and I were interviewing for the same company and the same position. But if this person is in a strange relationship with you, his mood may not be so low now.

Sometimes, the sense of loss is also caused by comparison. But as long as he can adjust his mentality and think about it carefully, this matter itself is not a big deal.

Then, after understanding this situation, you can give the classmate some appropriate encouragement so that he will not be discouraged by the situation of this interview. There are many opportunities. As long as you cheer him up many times during this process, don't face him with yin and yang arguments. Then he will naturally not have too much anger towards you.