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What should I do if my son always doesn’t do housework at home?

When a child is unwilling to do housework, there is one solution.

It is not the child’s problem but the parents’ problem that the child is unwilling to do housework. A friend told me that her son She is 21 years old and never helps with housework at home. She has to take care of her two-year-old granddaughter and has to work under a lot of pressure. She often gets angry with her son because of this matter and doesn’t know how to solve it;

Actually, it is very simple to get help from others. Let me tell you a true story. After listening to it, you will know how to do it. Every day, I put a few bags of garbage in the corridor, waiting for me to go downstairs. , and took him down by the way. In the process, I discovered a very interesting thing. If I only put a garbage bag, even if I put it for two or three days, the garbage will still be there and not move at all! But if I put the garbage bag in the carton, the garbage bag disappeared that day. My observation was that the cleaning lady needed that carton, so she took my garbage bag away with it. OK, I have to admire this. This aunt is very good at being a good person, look at her!

When I need the cleaning lady to help me take away the garbage bags, I need to give her a little benefit, that is, give her a cardboard box. This kind of material reward can play a certain role. , but it won’t last long, so there is a better way, which is to benefit the other person from a character perspective, so as soon as my conversation changed, I asked this friend:

“Hey, I said Your son is 21 years old. What are the advantages of your son in the past 21 years?" Tell me, but this friend thought for a long time and couldn't think of one advantage, so I asked him: "Since you have one advantage? I can’t believe that you rarely praise your son.” She said yes, and she almost never does;

Ha, then I asked her again: “Do you often praise your son because of this?” He doesn't help you, complains about him, and blames him." She said "yes", and the question arises here. A person who has never received your affirmation and is often criticized by you, can he have a good attitude towards you? ? Even relatives can become enemies;

To summarize, if you want your child to help you work, please first find out your child’s strengths and tell them loudly to let him know. , he gets your approval, and when he is happy, he will come to help you. If you don’t believe me, try it and become a healthy and happy person.