A small quarrel is pleasant, but a big quarrel is hurtful. What do you think of this sentence?

In our lives, whether it is with our relatives, friends, or even lovers, there will be times when we quarrel. We cannot always live in harmony. There must be some existence in our lives. Where we have differences, we quarrel. These are normal phenomena, and everyone has his own temper and his own ideas. He blindly adapts to others and loses himself.

As the saying goes, "A small quarrel makes you happy, but a big quarrel hurts someone." This sentence is generally used in love. Many people will have a lot of small frictions in their lives with their significant other, causing Sometimes a quarrel may just be two people quarreling with each other, and the commotion caused by the quarrel may not be big. But sometimes when two people really encounter a particularly big disagreement, the quarrel may cause a particularly big sensation. This Sometimes, the relationship between the two people will be frustrated.

In fact, it is impossible for us not to quarrel in a relationship. Sometimes two people quarreling is not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, it will enhance the relationship between each other and make each other have a better relationship. understanding. You know what the other person can and cannot endure, and you can better appreciate the other person's love for you during some quarrels. However, when it comes to a real quarrel, you may say some extremely hurtful words, and the other person's heart may be... There are some setbacks in your relationship. Therefore, it is not unreasonable to say that a small quarrel is pleasant but a big quarrel is harmful.

Therefore, when we get along with our significant other, we must consider the other person's feelings. Whether you are getting along peacefully or quarreling, you must not be too hurtful. At the same time, when we quarrel in the process of getting along, we must also quarrel in a small way and try not to make a big quarrel to avoid hurting each other's feelings.