Rural matchmaker talks about this matter.

If you don't do it, you won't make a guarantee, and three generations won't be matchmakers. This sentence is actually not an old saying in rural areas around the country, but a popular sentence in Guangdong. The original saying is that you won't do it, you won't make a guarantee, and you won't be a matchmaker for three generations (worry-free life), which means the same thing.

What does this sentence mean? Actually, it's just a little rational. What does this mean? Does it make sense? Let's share it with you:

If you don't do it, you won't be a guarantor, and three generations won't be a matchmaker. For people nowadays, you just don't want to be an intermediary, a guarantor or a matchmaker. Why not these three people? I think the main reason is that I am afraid of losing my morality and getting into trouble. Intermediaries don't talk about it. Now some black intermediaries eat both landlords and tenants, which the ancients thought was immoral.

The guarantor refers to the witness. If someone asks you to be responsible for something, you should be responsible. So in order to avoid getting into trouble, try not to be a guarantor for others, because you don't know where his betrayal bottom line is.

As for not being a matchmaker, it is immoral. Buddhism pays attention to the causal cycle, and the retribution is not good. If you pull a marriage line for money, both sides will live well. If they are unlucky, he won't forget you as a matchmaker. Credit? I will curse you in my heart from time to time.

I really understand why the matchmaker can't answer this sentence. I met Maoming's sister when I was playing online games around 2000. Her ex-boyfriend's family disdained her and they broke up. However, her ex-boyfriend is also a scum man. He listened to his parents and married another sister. If so, then there is no problem.

But after the ex-boyfriend got married, he also harassed this sister. In short, he broke up with her and married someone else because his father's life was hard to violate, that is, he wanted to have an affair with his sister.

We often play games together in the first half of the night and listen to this girl tell her emotional story in the second half of the night. I am a very caring person. I sympathize with this sister's experience, and I don't want her to fall into the sweet talk of her ex-boyfriend to be a mistress. I happened to know a foreigner from Maoming, so I introduced them.

The result was beyond my expectation. The man I introduced to this sister is also love rat, who just wants to play with this sister. I was really a little cautious when I learned about it. I gave this man a good scolding on QQ. I trusted you so much that I introduced you to someone. As a result, are you right about me? That man may take me for a fool and won't even reply to me, let alone apologize.

I can only comfort that sister. Although she said she didn't mean to blame me, I always felt I was sorry for her. She trusts me very much and will associate with the people I introduce. As a result, I introduced her to a wolf instead of a person. Later, I told this story to another friend who was very close to me. She told me how stupid you are. Being a matchmaker is a thankless thing. People are happy and think this is what you should do. I don't blame you for being a matchmaker when people are unhappy.

To sum up, if you don't do it, you won't do it. Three generations are not matchmakers. This sentence is mainly to preserve our sanity, especially to be a matchmaker. As the ancients said, it is better to tear down ten temples than ruin a marriage. It is said that marriage is not easy. If you don't know the situation, it's a bit immoral to bridge the gap between the two sides, or for money. The ancients also talked about the cycle of cause and effect, and the bitter fruit had to be swallowed by themselves.