The 3-year-old son was "bullied" by his classmates, and his mother grabbed his son's hand and fought back. What should parents do when their children are bullied?

The 3-year-old son was "bullied" by his classmates, and his mother grabbed his son's hand and fought back. When a child is bullied, as a parent, it will certainly be hurt, but it is not your reason or excuse to fight violence with violence. ...

First of all, we should know the reason, what caused this incident, whether the child was beaten because his child did something radical to anger himself or the other person's own mistakes, personality reasons and so on. The first thing we should do is to understand and communicate ... communicate with the teacher, understand the whole story, and then communicate with the parents of the other child, so that the two children can grow up healthily and happily. ...

So if it's your child's problem, you should first explain the situation to the parents of the other child, because even if your child has a problem, you shouldn't be treated like this. In any case, hitting people is wrong, and communicating with the parents of the other child is also responsible for the child. I think two children should apologize to each other in public in kindergarten class, because it is impossible for two children to have an argument without other children seeing it. Therefore, such a public apology is also a correct guide for other children and will give them a correct value.

If it's just the other person's personality, it's even more important to communicate with the teacher and his parents. Now the child is only three years old. If he learned to bully and speak with his fists at the age of three, what can he do in the future? I think if he communicates with the other parents in this way, the other parents will accept it gladly, because we are helping them educate their children, help them better understand their children, and find out the problems and deviations they encounter in the process of growing up in time.

And I think that in this case, the bullied child should and must apologize and let him know that the other person's behavior is wrong and unreasonable. On the contrary, he should be apologized, instead of shrinking and giving in. Over time, he should become a timid person. Of course, he should also apologize in public in front of other children, because this incident has also had a bad influence on other children. After all, the child is still young. The world outlook and values have not yet been fully established, and it is necessary to "set things right" in time. We should also correct them, which will also help the "bullied" children to restore their self-confidence and self-esteem and grow up in the future!

This kind of mother who fights violence with violence and answers blows with blows is extremely undesirable. This will only make children unable to handle things calmly and become more and more unreasonable. Parents are still the best teachers for their children. Be sure to watch your words and deeds!