What about the cold violence of college roommates?

First, find the reason. Sometimes, you may be cold-blooded by your classmates for no reason. You can have a good talk with him and see what made him do it. Maybe you accidentally did something to keep him in mind, but he didn't say it, but used cold violence to solve it, so that he could say what he thought of you and let you know the reason why he was angry.

A lot of people do. They don't say anything when they are angry, hoping others will guess, but when will they guess? Therefore, we must find out what happened to him. If it is a problem that can be solved, let's solve it together. If it can't be solved, I hope he can tolerate it. After all, we lived in a dormitory for four years and spent a lot of time together. If two people don't talk and communicate all the time, not only you two will be embarrassed, but other roommates will also be embarrassed.

With so much time in college, I may never live in such a dormitory again. I should cherish my roommate. If there are any problems, I should solve them well, understand and tolerate them more, and attach importance to harmony.

Besides, many times, there are contradictions between roommates, but there are also some misunderstandings. For example, because everyone comes from different places, different places, everyone's living habits and ways of getting along are different. It's also possible that your roommate thinks your living habits are too different from his own and doesn't want to make friends with you. At this time, you can let your roommate know that your living habits are only related to your previous living environment. If your roommate can't accept it, you can make some changes to cater to him.

Or because you did something to make your roommate misunderstand that there is something wrong with your personality or outlook on life, which is inevitable. Many people may have this situation. In this case, you should also communicate more and tell your roommate what you did and said in time. He misunderstood you.

In a word, harmony is the most important thing, and more communication is needed.