Nothing is equal to living in vain. Tell me.

Life is "in vain", which is the common feeling of people who have experienced vicissitudes.

No one knows what kind of life is not in vain. People only know that struggling in this seemingly beautiful life is full of regret, but in fact it is full of pain.

Some people are born rich second generation, but they have hundreds of millions of assets, cars, houses and companies before they work hard. They are just winners in life. These people are really lucky.

Some people are born ordinary. From studying when I was a child to working hard in the society when I grew up, I was afraid all my life and worked hard all my life, but after all, I still got nothing and lived in a disgusting state.

In this way, the latter will feel that how can other people's lives be so good that they won their own lives without even struggling? How come my life is so bad, and I have worked hard all my life for nothing?

In fact, how can there be a reality of "no pains, no gains" in this world? There is a truth in the book called "no pains, no gains", but it is just a comforting chicken soup after all.

To put it bluntly, we sow thousands of seeds in spring, but in autumn, we may not even get the fruits. This is actually very common.

Perhaps, only those who have worked hard in society for a long time will have an epiphany. What is the meaning of living in vain?

02

Wang: I have struggled in big cities for more than 20 years, and I have lived in vain.

Mr. Wang, 46, works in a first-tier city, has a house, the loan has not been repaid, and his two children are underage. Faced with the situation of this life, he felt a little weak.

In 2020, due to the influence of the big environment, Mr. Wang's business closed down and Mr. Wang was also unemployed. Later, although Mr. Wang kept submitting resumes, no one wanted him.

He also knows that in today's workplace where he looks down on middle-aged people, no boss wants a middle-aged employee. Others would rather choose a few young people than become a burden (middle age).

Mr. Wang, who is unemployed, has no choice but to do odd jobs everywhere, even if it is takeaway. However, after all, he is an elderly middle-aged man, and his energy is still not as good as that of young people.

He also knows that although he can afford the mortgage for the time being, his two children still need to study. In particular, the second child born only three years ago now spends two or three thousand yuan a month in kindergarten.

That's it, Mr. Wang, who is under great pressure, said with emotion that he just came to work in a big city more than 20 years ago and thought everything would develop in a good direction. But something unexpected happened and I still didn't live in my mind. Is this life really meaningful?

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In fact, there are many middle-aged people like Mr. Wang in life. They have struggled for most of their lives, but they still lag behind in life and even don't feel the happiness of life.

If you are middle-aged after 70, you might as well ask yourself, are you happy after all?

Generally speaking, 20% people will say that they live happily. After all, 80% people will feel unhappy at all.

In terms of the population base of the society, after all, the latter accounts for the majority. Because there are very few people in this world who can have a successful career and have a house and a car. Most people, they even have difficulty in maintaining a stable job.

Why do so many middle-aged people feel that they have "lived in vain"?

Not because they don't work hard enough, but because they really work too hard and devote themselves wholeheartedly to the life of fighting for life and family. In the end, they will naturally feel that their efforts have not been rewarded "life is in vain."

You have paid so much for the enterprise that the boss dismissed you as soon as he saw you in middle age. After all you have done for your family, there are always some people who like to find fault with their eggs. ......

All this makes people feel helpless after 70 years old in middle age. It can even be thought that people have lived and struggled all their lives, and finally got nothing, and they have no freedom all their lives. Is it really worth it?

04

What is the meaning of life? Is it really worth the effort?

These problems are all in our minds and can't be dispersed for a long time. It is because many of us can't figure out these problems, or we can't understand the truth of this life.

In fact, we should realize that this fate is unfair and this world is unfair. It doesn't mean that if you work hard, you will be rewarded if you pay.

Most people, after struggling all their lives, may not even reach the starting point of others. Perhaps, this is in vain?

These people didn't live in vain, but after understanding the truth of life, they walked into a dead end and couldn't see the other side of life at all.

No one alive in this world is completely happy. Where there are people, there must be suffering and misfortune. And the only thing we can do is to cherish what we have now and live every day well.

There is no "living in vain" in this world, because any experience we have is the wealth of life.

When we are old and weak, no matter how much we can achieve, as long as we look back, we will have a feeling of "doing our best", which is enough.

Don't worry about mediocrity, and don't suffer because you can't do it for the sake of doing it. Since everyone is like this, why can't we live every day well?

Text/There are deer in Shushan