Being self-centered is a selfish behavior. People must forget themselves. Being selfish is instinct and is not an excuse.

Selfishness and self-centeredness are not the same thing

People are selfish because they have to face survival problems

So people’s selfishness is reasonable

Simply speaking

From the perspective of loss and benefit:

Benefit oneself at the expense of others

Harm others and harm oneself

Benefit others and benefit oneself

Benefit others at the expense of oneself

***There are four modes

Self-centered refers to behavior that benefits oneself at the expense of others

And common selfishness means benefiting others and benefiting oneself

So the so-called moral promotion

advocates benefiting others and oneself

And Those who benefit others and harm themselves are great people

We will be grateful because this is a high moral standard

It is precisely because it is a high moral standard

It is impossible for ordinary people to do it, so it is not advocated

Therefore, educating people with morality means benefiting others and benefiting oneself, rather than benefiting oneself at the expense of others, that is, not being self-centered