There are no ifs in life, only results.

Nine out of ten things in the world are unsatisfactory, and everyone will leave some regrets in their lives.

Someone once asked, what will happen if there is "if" in the world? I don't know, but...

If we can have a chance to start over in life, we Would there be no regrets?

If there were not so many regrets in the world, would we be very happy?

If there were regret medicines for sale in the world, would we be able to go back to the beginning? ;

Unfortunately, there are no ifs in life, only results.

01.

There are no ifs and there are no repeats in life

Proposal has never been exclusive to men, women also have the same rights.

In the popular movie "Your Wedding" in May this year, there is a scene in which You Yongci and Zhou Xiaoqi said: How about we get married. She looked expectantly at the boy she loved, expressing her deepest expectations and hoping to get an answer that would make her desperate.

Zhou Xiaoqi said, I have nothing now. No matter what marriage I get, I can’t even give you a serious marriage. Stop joking, but he didn’t see the disappointment that slipped through You Yongci’s eyes when he heard this answer. and sad.

Stephen Chow, who is nearly 60 years old, is still unmarried. His career is undoubtedly successful, but his relationship is a complete failure. In his relationship, there was a woman that he couldn't let go of for a long time, Luo Huijuan.

After Stephen Chow and Luo Huijuan had been dating for a while, Luo Huijuan felt that it was time to get married, so she said to Stephen Chow affectionately: "Let's get married." Stephen Chow replied to her: "You're crazy." Just like this, a relationship was ended by this sentence and ended without any problem. By the time Stephen Chow regretted it, the love in his heart had become someone else's bride.

If he had known that this beloved girl would become someone else's bride, he would have said "I do" at that time.

The movie "Westward Journey: Moonlight Treasure Box" he once filmed may be an obsession in his heart. He hopes that with the help of the Moonlight Treasure Box, he can be sent back to the past. It's a pity that no matter how many times the Moonlight Box can go back to the past, it cannot do it again in real life.

Whether it is "Your Wedding" in the drama or Stephen Chow in reality, their lives are like a movie. The same thing is that they have the same experience. The difference is that the former can be NG, and the latter can be NG. The player only has a live broadcast, no rehearsal, will never NG, and will not have a chance to do it again.

02.

Regret is a normal state of life and cannot be made up for.

Once upon a time, I found a question on a forum: Is it better for a man to put more emphasis on his career or his relationship?

Netizens’ answers varied. Most men choose careers, while most women think it might be better for them to have romantic boyfriends.

I think career and relationship, no matter which side you value, are not good. They are equivalent to the relationship between a spear and a shield. If he pays attention to feelings, then he may be mediocre and you may not love him; if he pays attention to career, then he will definitely ignore your feelings, and you will feel that he does not pay attention to them. you.

In fact, every man has two women in his heart, a red rose and a white rose. One is the cinnabar mole in his heart, and the other is the white moonlight in his heart. No matter which one, no one can let go.

The regrets in the world begin with goodbye. And the luckiest things in the world often lie in seeing each other again later.

After Luo Huijuan, Stephen Chow also met another girl, Zhu Yin. The two were together for a while, but they failed to get together in the end.

If Luo Huijuan is Stephen Chow's Bai Yueguang, then Zhu Yin is Stephen Chow's cinnabar mole. Unfortunately, he missed both Bai Yueguang and cinnabar mole because of his career.

Plato once said: "The most regretful thing in life is to give up easily what should not be given up, and stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted."

The word regret explains It explains most of the world and explains most of Stephen Chow's life. Unfortunately, there are many regrets and few blessings.

03.

There is no regret medicine in the world, you need to be cautious when making any decision

A Liang and his girlfriend Lingling broke up. On the day of the breakup, he happily I opened a suitcase and invited my friends over to celebrate his breakup. He said breakups also require a sense of ceremony, so I went too.

The reason why they broke up was rather strange. It was because his girlfriend Lingling was too clingy and didn't give him any space, which made him feel like he was in jail when he was in love, so he broke up.

Lingling is a very good person, but because she was hurt by her ex-boyfriend, she does not believe in feelings. When A Liang chased her, she refused at that time, fearing that she would be hurt again. But women are always emotional, and A Liang's constant care and love for half a year touched her heart.

A good relationship is to return you to your original appearance and pamper you like a child.

The appearance of A Liang became Lingling's salvation. After careful consideration, she decided to be with A Liang, who was also very kind to her. But I don’t know when the relationship between the two changed.

It was the first time they had a quarrel because of a very small matter. The first time for anything means the second. The second time, slowly, there were more quarrels between them, and they eventually ended up breaking up.

She once thought that Ah Liang would be her salvation, but she did not expect that all the storms were brought about by him. Maybe men don’t know how to cherish it when they get it.

After the breakup, the news of A Liang’s unboxing celebration reached her that night. She packed her things silently, emptied everything related to A Liang, booked a flight, and silently left this sad city. .

I heard a very classic saying, those who say loudly to leave are often the ones who don’t want to leave, because people who really want to leave are even careful to close the door, shh...

A month later, A Liang regretted it. He was used to Lingling's company and used to Lingling being by his side. When he went to find Lingling, it was too late. Lingling left simply. Nothing is left. There was a huge sea of ??people, but no one knew where she was going. Some people would never see her again as soon as she turned around.

Their stories tell us that the rest of life is very expensive, so don’t pay for it with regrets, because anything can be copied in the world, but time cannot be copied.

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Most people in the world hope that they can have a chance to start over and go back to the moment before they left regrets. Unfortunately, there is only Stephen Chow in the world, but There is no Moonlight Box.

The regrets left in childhood and the regrets lost eventually become an opportunity for everyone to grow. Unfortunately, the price paid is too high.

Those old people who often sit at the doorstep of the countryside to enjoy the cool air often hold a fan in their hands and look into the distance while fanning themselves. No one knows what they are thinking. But if you look carefully, you will find that their vicissitudes of life are full of stories.

Perhaps they think of their past and the regrets they left behind.

I regret that I knew it too late and understood it too late.

There is never an "if" in life, and it cannot be repeated. I hope everyone will cherish the people around them.

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