Daughter, you are going to graduate from college, too. Dad wants to talk to you.

Son, watching you grow up, dad is really happy.

You will be a senior in high school when the summer vacation is over. I have a feeling that you will leave me one day after graduation. If you keep it in your heart for a long time and don't say it, you will have less chance to say it later.

Watching you toddler, go to kindergarten, primary school, middle school and college, time flies. In a blink of an eye, you will graduate from college.

Every time, I send you to school. Along the way, you have changed many schools, and I have been to many schools. I can't remember how many times I sent it.

Like many parents, I have expectations and love for you. I hope you can go further and further on your way to school, and you don't have to break your heart for daily necessities like your mother and me.

You worked hard in middle school, but you didn't get good grades in the college entrance examination. You cried, crying very wronged, just like a baby in your arms when you were a child.

I was angry when I saw you crying. I blame the unfair college entrance examination, and I blame you for not studying hard.

On the surface, I accuse you, but I just want to cheer you up. It's no use crying.

Actually, your mother and I secretly cried that day.

I studied hard for ten years in a cold window, only laughing for the rest of my life. Dad understands your sadness and helplessness.

You didn't go to a good university, went to a remote area and went to an ordinary undergraduate course. I would never send you there if there was any other choice.

02

The first time I saw you off, I regretted it on the train. At that time, my heart was full of sadness and I had the urge to take you back.

I'm afraid you are not used to this place, because it is mountainous and far away. I'm even more afraid that you, a little girl, are not safe on the way back and forth.

However, when I got to school and saw so many students, you were so happy that I stopped talking.

For three years, every time I sent you to the station, I silently hoped that you would come back in the first half of the year. Every time I see you come back safely, I feel extremely gratified.

Son, you didn't let us down.

You have grown up and have your own ideas and plans. You said you wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and your parents supported you.

Whether you pass the exam or not, your parents are waiting for you to go home for dinner. The door of home is always open for you.

It's just that dad is a little worried that you are not nearsighted, and you have a high school education and changed a pair of glasses.

This time, I don't want to cheer for you. I just hope you pay more attention to rest and don't overwork.

Two days ago, my father watched the speech "Add less oil" by super speaker and student Manru.

She said that she was a high school teacher and often told her students to cheer for the college entrance examination. But once in the college entrance examination, a student didn't take part. He was still a good student.

Many class teachers rushed to his home, persuaded him to come out for the college entrance examination, shouted at him and cheered for the college entrance examination. But the child said, can you stop telling me to cheer? I'm under too much pressure. I really want to forget it.

Son, I often tell you to study hard. I don't know if it puts a lot of pressure on you.

That's it!

03

Son, you have always been very sensible. Parents see it in their eyes, but it hurts in their hearts.

Today, dad wants to tell you that girls are too sensible, which is not good.

I remember the first time my father bought you clothes for 200 yuan, and you cried with excitement. When I asked you what else to buy, you shook your head and said no.

You are thrifty and sensible, which has given me many surprises.

You seldom ask us for anything. Compared with your peers, you want too little.

Although our family doesn't have much money, it is enough for you to study. How to save money and make money really shouldn't be your consideration.

Last time you called home, you cried and told me that you were going to take a part-time job because of myopia.

You cried so hard that you said you were a loser and no one even wanted a job.

Son, you think too much. Everyone has everyone's value, and you are no exception. Cheap labor can neither use what you have learned nor help you improve.

I'm worried that you are so sensible, how worried you will be when you get married after work.

It's too tired to move things alone.

04

I never want you to talk about love.

Once, we quarreled. You call me selfish. Why do I insist that you marry closer in the future? You never want to come back to this family.

You were so angry that you ran out of the door regardless of your parents' feelings.

Do you know how much my father hurts?

Yes, dad is a little selfish. Mom and dad are over 500 years old, and you can't understand the yearning for children now. One day, you will understand.

Dad is your only daughter. If you marry too far, dad can't see it and can't reach it. I can only listen to your description on the phone, your life, your job and your family.

Son, this is cruel to dad.

Mom and Dad, we have never been in love. We got married on a blind date. After a lifetime of running-in, it will still be noisy.

A loving family is warm.

When you are in love, remember to find someone with excellent personality. Dad won't criticize anyone for no reason, let alone disrespect your wishes.

It's just that the person you are looking for must be kind to you. Otherwise, dad would rather be a bad guy than allow others to bully you.

05

Dad never nags you. Let's nag more today.

You said you didn't get along with your roommates, and they ignored you in dialect. You invited them to dinner with a scholarship and didn't get respect for it. You feel too tired to make friends.

Dad tells you a little story.

I took the college entrance examination that year and didn't pass the exam for the first time. Later, I read again and got good grades in physics and chemistry. I was at the top of my class and successfully crossed the national line.

I was admitted to a technical secondary school. Because I was a repeat student, the defendant dropped out of school and failed to go to college. There were many students who were accused in those years, and I still feel very sorry.

After failing the list, my friends who played well in high school never contacted again.

They and I are no longer on the same level, and there is no way to communicate with each other. You really can't be friends if you have different opinions.

You love learning, and they love change; You love to participate in activities, but they don't love anything; You like to take a lunch break, and they like to make noise when you sleep. ...

You have different views, don't be friends, do what you like. It's better to have friends, but don't be strong if you don't.

Friends are always hard to find, and you are not tired with like-minded people.

But you should always remember that no matter what others do, you should always be kind.

You are only in your early twenties, and you have many opportunities. Don't worry about what you have to accomplish, there is still a long way to go.

The holiday is coming, and dad wants you to go home.