In a relationship, is money the antidote or poison?

Money is not everything, but nothing is possible without money. As long as it is in human society, money has the infinite magic power you want. The world of love is no exception.

Since money is a magical thing, it is also a double-edged sword.

If you use it well, it is the antidote.

If you don’t use it well, it becomes poison. If you have love but no money, your life will be particularly insecure

Many people always think that when you are in love, you should have enough water. When you really like someone, you can live a happy life even if you don't have money. As long as we work together, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.

When you get married, you risk everything for love, even if you don’t have a house, a car, or an income.

But it often does not last for a few years before contradictions are exposed.

When the child is born, I want to find a confinement nanny, but I have no money;

When my child goes to school, I want to move to a room in the school district, but I have no money;

I have been busy for a year and want to go on vacation abroad. No money;

A serious illness came suddenly and I had no money.

Love is not only romance, but also daily necessities. Marriages that don't talk about money are more likely to get into arguments.

Without a certain amount of money as a support, the little love between you will soon be worn away. As the saying goes, poor and humble couples suffer from everything. When survival cannot be guaranteed, you have nothing to think about. Thinking about love love.

Although money can’t solve all problems, with money, you don’t have to worry about money, argue, or blame each other all the time. You will not have to worry about money all the time, and you will have time to enjoy life. Your condition will really be much better.

At this time, money is the antidote.

As a saying in "Beijing Love Story" says: "Love without material things does not exist. Because material things and love are inseparable and closely connected." If you have money but no love, your I will be very dissatisfied

There was once a piece of news that was very popular. Someone asked directly, if the husband gives 100,000 yuan in living expenses on time every month, but often does not come home, will anyone be willing?

Some people said that they are very willing and just want money. It doesn’t matter if their husband comes back or not. If he doesn’t come back, it will save him trouble.

People who say this are just because they have never really encountered such a thing.

It is true that money is needed to solve the problem, but in any case, feelings should not be the sacrifice of this transaction.

After all, it is easy to find someone to drink with you, and it is not difficult to find someone to sleep with.

But it is so difficult to find someone who can relate to each other and is willing to go through the troughs of life together.

What kind of relationship is there without companionship, without love and being loved? What kind of marriage is it? When a person gives you only money but no love, in such a marriage, money means nothing to you. It will just become something of little value.

Life requires money, but what money buys is ultimately cold and without any warmth. It cannot buy the care you want, nor can it buy a warm heart. At this time, money may become poison!

But in the final analysis, money is very important in relationships, and love is also very important. Both spiritual and material things need to be enriched

Whether it is for a person or a relationship, in order to live, money needs to be guaranteed, and spirituality also needs to be guaranteed. Able to enrich.

Without money, you will suffer in life; without love, you will suffer in heart. So the best thing is not to give up a true love for money, but don't completely ignore the financial foundation for a so-called true love.

When looking for your partner, you should try your best to find someone who you still like in your heart and who really likes you. If he has good financial conditions, that's great, but even if he doesn't, it must not prevent you from seeing the future.

A man in his twenties may be poorer now and have a poorer starting point, but he must not be idle, often full of resentments, and not motivated at all. Such a man cannot There will be a future.

In this long life, you have to choose a lifelong partner. He may be a little poorer now and cannot give you much, but he must be motivated enough and capable of giving you a future.