Read the passage of "Letter to Sister" and tell me what kind of person is Yuan Mei's third sister?

Pay tribute to my sister (translated) Yuan Mei.

In the winter of Qianlong and Dinghai, the third sister Su Wen was buried in Yangshan, Shangyuan County. She said:

Alas! You were born in Zhejiang (Hangzhou), but you are buried here, which is 700 miles away from our hometown. Even if you had all kinds of weird dreams and fantasies, would you know that this is where you buried your bones?

Because of a concept of chastity, you married a bad guy and left him, leaving you lonely, sad and frustrated. Although it is destiny takes a hand, it is the actual arrangement of heaven; But it's not my fault that I brought you to this (tragic) state. When I was a child, I heard the teacher talk about Confucian classics. You and I sit side by side, especially listening to the ancients' heavy righteousness; Once you grow up, you should practice it yourself immediately. Alas! If you don't know poetry and books, you may not be so chaste in difficult times.

When I was a child, I caught crickets, and you (also) caught crickets with open arms; It was so cold that the insects froze. We came to the cave where the insects were buried. Now (when) I pretend to bury you (when), the scene of that day is clearly presented to my eyes. When I was nine years old, I was resting in my study. You came to review the chapter "Yi" in The Book of Songs with two steamed stuffed buns with small claws and a thin silk shirt. Just as Mr. Wang opened the door and came in, he heard the children's voices of two children ringing loudly, and he couldn't help laughing (dew) and whispering. This happened on July 15. You are (now) underground, you should remember clearly. I went to Guangxi when I was about twenty years old, and you grabbed (my) clothes and cried. Three years later, I was admitted to Jinshi and went home (gloriously). You came out of the east wing with a wooden tray full of food. The family stared at (you) and smiled. I don't remember where I started. I was admitted to the Jinshi in Beijing, and the messenger informed me sooner or later. Although these trivial things have become a thing of the past, as long as I am not dead, I will never forget them. The past fills my chest, and when I think about it, I feel sad. (They) disappeared one by one like shadows. If you want to get close to them, catch them and they will disappear. I regret that I did not record my childhood in detail. But you are no longer in this world, so even if you go back in time, you can experience it again as a child, and no one will prove it to me.

You broke up with Gao's family and went back to your mother's (later). The mother of the first family depends on you to wait on you, and everything related to writing at home depends on you. I once said that women are the essence who are least familiar with Confucian classics and elegant allusions. Your sister-in-law is not disobedient and does not like to talk, but she has always been lacking in this respect. So since you came back, although you are sad for you, you are really happy for me. I am four years older than you, so maybe the older one will die first. I can entrust you with the things after death, but I didn't expect you to die before me! The year before last, I was ill. You've been asking questions all night If you become better, you will be happy. If you are very ill, you will be very sad. Later, although his condition improved slightly, he was still lying and sitting (yes, he couldn't get out of bed) and there was nothing to amuse himself. Tell (me) an exciting and surprising story in the novel unofficial history before going to bed, and have a good time. Alas! Where can I call you if I get sick again from now on?

Your illness, I believe what the doctor said is not dangerous, so I stayed away from (my home) to visit the places of interest in Yangzhou. You are worried that I am worried about your illness and won't let my family report it. When your illness is extremely serious, your mother asks you if you want your brother to come back, and you insist on saying "yes". I dreamed that the first day you came to say goodbye (to me), knowing that it was unlucky, I hurried across the river by clipper. Sure enough, I got home before midnight, and you died at dawn. There is still temperature in your limbs and one (only) eye is not closed, so you are still waiting for me. Oh, it hurts! If I know that I will say goodbye to you forever, how can I travel far away? Even if I travel, I still have a lot to let you know and discuss with you. But now it's over! Except for my death, of course there will be no meeting day. Now I don't know when I will die and see you. Besides, whether I am conscious or unconscious after my death, it is hard to understand whether I can meet you or not. In this case, then (I) have endless regrets, (is) providence, (or) personnel, but it can't be made up after all!

I have printed your poems; Your daughter, I have married her; I wrote a biography of your life; It's just that your grave has not been planned yet. The ancestral grave is in Hangzhou, far from the Yangtze River and the Canal. It seems difficult to send them back for burial, so I asked my mother (with her consent) to let you rest here so that you can visit the grave. Bury your daughter Ayin beside her. There are two graves under it, one is my father's concubine Zhu, and the other is my brother's concubine Dao. Yangshan is vast and empty. Looking south, it is a plain, where the humidity is low. Looking west, it is Qixia Mountain. It's windy and rainy. Sooner or later, a soul living in a foreign country should not feel lonely if it has a partner. Sadly, I haven't given birth to a son since I read your crying nephew poem in Wuyin. Two daughters just babbled and were born after your death, only one year old. Although I dare not say that I am old, because my mother is still alive, my teeth are shaking and my hair is falling out. I secretly know that I can live for a few days! (Brother) Yipin is an official in Henan and has no children, so the nine imperial families have no heirs. If you die, I will bury you. If I die, who will bury me? If you have a soul, can you tell me?

Alas! You can't think about things when you are alive, and you can't know things after you die. You can't hear crying, pay homage to you, and can't see you eating. Paper money flies, and the north wind is fierce. Brother, I went back and kept looking back at you. So sad! So sad!

Original comments:

Dedicated to my sister (1)

Qingyuanmei

Gan Ding Longhai East ②, buried his third sister Su Wen in Yangshan ③ of Shangyuan, and offered wine to Wen Yue:

Oh! You were born in Zhejiang and buried in Sri Lanka, 700 miles from my hometown. At that time, although I dreamed of fantasy (4), I would rather know that it was for bones. Thinking of your virginity, leaving when you meet someone, causing loneliness and danger. Although your life has been saved, it is true. However, those who are tired of you are not wrong. When you teach your young teacher the Bible, you sit on your shoulder and enjoy listening to the festivals of the ancients. Once you grow up, you will bow your head and dance. Oh! Let you know nothing about poetry and calligraphy, or it may not be difficult to be true (1 1).

I catch the cricket, and your arm comes out (12); Cold worm 13 years old stiff. I'm going to bury you today (14), but the situation that day was amazing (15). When I was nine years old, I rested in my study. You wore a double bun and a single coat (16) and read the chapter "Shui Yi" (17). Mr. Shi entered the room (18), heard the voices of two boys (19), smiled (20) and shouted (2 1). Looking at the sun in July (22). I remember it clearly when I was in Jiuyuan (23). Give the weak crown to Guangdong (24) and you will mourn (25). After more than three years, I went home in Gong Jin (26), and you came out of the East Wing to help with the case (27), and the family glared (28). I don't remember where the words began, probably because Chang 'an was admitted, and the letter sent a message to Yuner sooner or later (29). Although this insignificant (30) is a relic of the past, I will never forget it as long as I live. Fill in the past (3 1), and think about the sadness of (32), which will follow you, and you will die if you force it. I regret that I have not kept my love story (33) and my love story (34). However, if you are no longer on the earth, you can go back to your childhood without witnesses.

You are high without hesitation (35), I support you in class (36); At home, Mo Wen (37 years old) leads an honest and clean life (38 years old). It is said that among women, the most ignorant and ungrateful is (39), and your sister-in-law is not elegant (40), which is slightly lacking. So, since you came back, although I feel sorry for you, I am really happy. If you are four years old, or the old people in the world die first, you can be entrusted behind you, not that you should go first. The year before last, you were sick and were working as a spy at night (4 1). If you subtract one point, you will be happy; if you add one point, you will be worried. Although I am a little careless (42), I am still wandering around (43), and there is nothing to entertain. You come to bed and talk about something satisfying (44). Oh! Sometimes, I get sick again. Where can I call you?

Your illness is harmless if you believe in medicine (45), and you will stay away from Yangzhou (46). You worry about my heart (47) and stop people from going to the newspaper. When you are very tired (48), Mammy asks, "I hope my brother will come back?" Qiangying said, "Promise (49)!" I had a dream the day before. I knew it was unlucky and flew over the river. If you return to China before the time (50 minutes), you will die (5 1 minute), four branches are still warm, and the cover is still waiting for you. Oh, it hurts! If I knew you, would I travel far? Even if you travel, there are still a few words in your heart that you should know and hear, and you should plan (52). It's gone now! I'll never see you again except my death. I don't know when I will die, so I can see you, but I can't see whether I know or not after I die, and it's hard to know when I die. However, there is no end to this regret. Anyone here? And it's almost (53)?

Your poem, I have Fu Zi (54); Your daughter, I am married; I have made a biography of your life; But you (55) haven't found your ear (56). I was first buried in Hangzhou (57), where the river is wide and deep, so I asked my mother to give me a life. I would rather be in Sri Lanka (58), so I will sacrifice to sweep it. Next to your daughter Ayin, there are two graves, one is Grandpa's waiter Zhu (59) and the other is Brother's waiter Dao (60). Yangshan is vast (6 1), with Yuanji (62) in the south and Qixia (63) in the west. It's raining in the morning and I'm not lonely. People who have pity on me, I have no man since I read your crying nephew poem in Five Tones (65). After your death, you gave birth to two female fangs (66), and then you grew ears (67). Although I am old (68), but my teeth are bald (69), I know, I know it will be a few days in the world! One product is far away in Henan (70), and there are no children, and nine families have no successors (7 1). If you die, I will bury you. If I die, who will bury you? If you have a soul, you can sue me?

Oh! The front can't think, and the back can't know; Cry that you don't smell your words and drink your food. Paper dust, north wind crazy, my brother is back, and I will look back at you. Alas! Alas!

(1) Ennki, the third sister of Yuan Mei, is a girl without makeup and loves reading. She married Gao's son, and later Gao's son became dissolute. She suggested breaking off the engagement, but she was deeply influenced by feudal ethics and insisted on "loyalty to life". After marriage, Gao's son became more and more disorderly, abused his wife and sold her to pay off gambling debts. As a last resort, he fled back to her family and sued the officials for disowning her. This article is a memorial to my sister, which is true and accurate, and can be compared with Han Yu's Ode to Twelve Lang and Ouyang Xiu's Longgang Clamp Watch. The author also has a biography of his female brother Su Wen to describe his life.

(2) The reign of Emperor Gaozong in Qing Dynasty was thirty-two years (1767).

(3) Shangyuan: the name of the county, which is in the urban area of Nanjing today. Yangshan: It's in the east of Nanjing.

(4) dream: dream. Zhou Li Chun Guan Dabu: "The dream is in February." Zheng Xuan's Note: "What you get in your dreams."

(5) One thought of chastity: it means that Yuan Zhen insisted on marrying the Gaos.

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(7) loneliness and sadness. Toro Tuotuo was depressed.

(8) Where life exists: Destiny takes a hand.

(9) Poor (cρ defect) shoulder: shoulder to shoulder.

(10) Suddenly: Then, just. Personal practice.

(1 1) bear hardships: be practical when encountering difficulties.

(12) Raise your arm: wave your arm.

(13) Seven holes in Tonglin: Seven holes in Tonglin, where crickets are buried.

(14) Lianlian: Dress the dead and put them in the coffin.

(15) Ran Jing: The appearance is clear.

(16) Single coat (jiān): Single coat made of fine silk.

(17) Yiyi: One of Zheng Feng in The Book of Songs.

(18) Customer: Open the door.

(19): The sound of reading.

(20) Wan (Wm4Nwan) Er: Smile.

(2 1) is the same as "tut tut" and "wah wah".

(22) Looking at the sun: the fifteenth day of the first lunar month.

(23) Jiuyuan: Youjiuquan, underground.

(24) Weak crown: In ancient times, a man was crowned when he reached the age of 20. Guangdong Tour: In the first year of Qianlong (1736), the author was 21 years old and went to Guangxi via Guangdong. At that time, his uncle Justin was the guest of Jin Zhi, the governor of Guangxi. Jin Zhi appreciates the author's literary talent and recommends him to take the erudition and rhetoric examination in Beijing.

(25) (jǐ crowded) Shang: pull clothes.

(26) Returning home with a Gong Jin: Qianlong for three years (1638), the author was a scholar, awarded Jishi Shu imperial academy, and returned home to visit relatives. Wearing palace brocade refers to wearing a robe made of special brocade in the palace.

(27) East Room: the house in the east. Wings are called wings.

(28) Gaze: Gaze into your eyes.

(29) the cloud: and so on.

(30) Trivial: all kinds of trivia.

(3 1) Pseudo: chest.

(32) Sadness: My heart is blocked by sadness.

(33) y ρ n ρ ρ: baby. Name and boss's explanation: "People are born as babies, ... when they are babies." This refers to childhood.

(34) "Luo Lu Ji Cun": The records are detailed and orderly.

(35) righteousness: sever the relationship.

(36) Anai: refers to the author's mother Zhang.

(37) Writing: refers to the affairs of writing exchange.

(38) Yan (Shun): Visual description. This is hope.

(39) Ming Jingyi: Understand the truth of the Scriptures. Familiar with (ān an) elegance: familiar with ancient allusions. Familiar.

(40) graceful (yi): soft and docile.

(4 1) Spying: Asking about the situation.

(42) Chacha (chāi Chai): The conditions are slightly better. Poverty is the same as "me". Dialect: "The worse, the better."

Yè dié night butterfly: The condition is not very serious. Dialect: "Between Qin Jin, if you are sick, you don't care much."

(44) Chat: Bring it.

(45) Harmless: no danger to life.

(46) Hanging: Visit historical sites.

Worry about my heart: I'm afraid I'll worry.

(48) chuò: The patient is in critical condition and his breathing is weak.

(49) Commitment: response words.

(50) Inappropriate: afternoon 1 till 3 o'clock.

(5 1) Morning: 7 am to 9 am.

(52) Planning: discussion.

And it's almost over: Is it over like this?

(54) Fu Zi: For publication. Catalpa, an ancient woodcut engraved with words. Yuan Ji's poems are attached to the Collection of Poems and Proses of Kokura Fang Shan.

(55) graves.

(56) Plan: Plan.

(57) First: the graves of ancestors.

(58) Ning: Bury.

Grandpa: Dad. The author's father, Yuan Bin, died very early. Attendant: concubines.

(60) Tao: The author is a concubine.

(6 1) Broad: Broad and empty.

(62) Yuanji (Xixi): Yuanye low-lying place.

Qixia: The mountain name is in the northeast of Nanjing.

(64) Soul fetters: ghosts living in a foreign land.

(65) Wuyin Year: Twenty-three years of Qianlong (1758), when the author lost his son, Yuanji wrote "Crying Nephew Poetry".

(66) Two women: twins born to Zhong Shi, the author's concubine. Fang: Babies learn to talk.

(67) Zhou Xi (Zu √ zui): One year old. Father Meng's Tokyo Dream Record and Delivery: "One hundred days after delivery. The meeting was held one hundred times; By the next birthday, it will be called Zhou Wei. "

(68) I dare not say that I am old when I am near: my parents are still there and I dare not say that I am old. At that time, the author was fifty-one years old and his mother was still there.

(69) Tooth danger: tooth jitter.

(70) Yipin: the author's cousin, a famous tree, and a word secretary, was then the magistrate of Zhengyang County, Henan Province.

(7 1) Jiuzu: In ancient times, it refers to one's father, grandfather, great-grandfather and great-grandfather, and the following sons, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and great-grandchildren are Jiuzu. It is also said that it refers to four paternal families, three matrilineal families and two wives. This refers to relatives inside and outside.